DH and I can not have biological children. We have been blessed with a DS adopted from Guatemala and twin girls through embryo donation.
There is a common misconception that there are a lot of embryos available for adoption or donation. That is simply not true. Yes, there are a lot of frozen embryos but the vast majority of them are either waiting to be used by the family that created them or the family that created them has not decided what to do with them.
We were blessed to be able to expirience pregnancy and we never, ever thought that would happen. I guess my opinion is leave the few embryos that are availble for adoption or donation to families like mine that were told they can never get pregnant or have a biological child.
Good Luck on your journey!