They have told us now and it turns out it was a military clinic meaning they would not treat me as a patient (because I am non-military) which is why we are now waiting through the process of shipping the embryos to my state.
They say this will take 6-12 weeks depending on when the donors can get tested to meet all of the FDA requirements.
We got a list back from our clinic of 46(!!!!!) line items that we had to meet to get the embryos transferred. Fortunately my husband and I have done many of the requirements already... but boy... it never ends!