As for my gender guesses, we always thought it was a boy, but now we will never know
I went to my RE for a failed IVF consultation yesterday and even he was dissapointed to hear that somehow our little one slipped through the cracks and no testing was done. He said with my other pregnancies we didn't have tissue to test and this one we did so why didn't they?!?!
Hopefully, something will come out of the ER and OR investigating what went wrong that day because that is pure negligence and irresponsible to not carry out the patients or doctors orders.
I hope summer 2012 gives you what you've been waiting for!!