[Sweetpea]

Hi everybody, Im new to the FET forum, but excited to be here. It feels so hopeful, and there's such a positive vibe.

Im a person who did a successful IVF last year, and is ready for round two. We have two day five, and one day six blastocysts, and are planning a cycle for early July. We were going to wait longer, and start in the fall, but when we started thinking about it, decided to jump right in.

I feel really optimistic, which is so important, for mood's sake, but sometimes the odds overwhelm me, and I get nervous. I confess that one of the major reasons we pushed up the date was bc I just cant take not knowing whether FET is going to work for us or now. I'd rather have two babies very close in succession then suffer the months of waiting that happen when you're anticipating a cycle. The waiting is the part that drives me the most nuts. I jsut cant do it, hence, my jump to July.

thoughts?? encouragement? I need some.

[irena_adler]

Welcome Sweetpea! Ignore 'odds', FET can really work!

It's been a long time since I posted much, at least in large part because I developed severe tendonitis in my right thumb. It started when the boys were born and has just gotten worse as the boys have gotten bigger. So I've been trying to limit my computer time - or at least my typing time as I play a lot of one-handed games for my sanity. I'm starting physical therapy this week to try to get this thumb better.

The boys are doing great. They really are happy, sweet guys. They will be starting their own physical therapy next week. Sam has a bit of a stiff neck, but Alex has much more of an issue. He has a hard time turning his head from right to left while laying down. In fact, Alex is going to get a CAT scan next week as well, to make sure that nothing else is up. Hopefully, just some exercises, stretches, etc will help that. Otherwise, they're growing like mad, sleeping well, amazing the doctors, and enchanting anyone within range of their smiles.

[ryan1218]

Just checkin in to see how everyone is doing. Hope all is well.

[Linz712]

Hi girls! How are you all?

Ryan how are your little ones or shoudl I say your chunky little guy? He is such a cutie! Are you back to work yet? Whats new?

Irena- the boys are getting so big! How are they doing with their physical therapy? And how are you doing? Poor thing- already work put and then having to deal with the tendonitis- that has to be just plain annoying! Ouch!

Joanne! OMG! Congrats on yor BFP!!! Wow!!! How are you doing?

Terri- how you doing hun? Been thinking about you! How's your little kitty?! I hope letting you sleep more!

Megan- How are the twins? And how are you? Are you guys having a good summer?

Audra- how are you? How's your little girl, and how are your sons? Is everyone adjusting to life with a new little one?

Well girls- I'm just hanging in there still! No news really- just busy with work. Still taking the Metformin- but still haven't seen AF since my last failed cycle in Feb- I guess thats been a nice break- lol- but I was hoping the Met. would help me ovulate. No such luck. I broke down and poas with half a hope a few weeks ago just to be sure- no luck- I shoudl probably do that again- I guess you just never really know, right?
We're thinking of doing a Clomid cycle in August- so looking forward to that- kinda. Maybe a FET in November- unless- Steve gets the new job he just had his second interview for with infertility insurance!!!! It would be so awesome in so many ways if he gets this position- so we'll see! Lots of unknows in the future still here!
Just staying busy with work and Blue- oh is he big! He's over 80 pounds now at 10 months- OMG! He ins't fat- he is just long and solid! I specualte he'll end up pushing 95 pounds oh so full grown- I hear that full grown is at a year and a half! We have a big boy on our hands- but is all puppy and is such a lover!

Well gals- I'll try to check in more often!

[t&tmcgil]

[FONT='Verdana','sans-serif']Hi everyone...It has been a while since I last posted as I have been going through alot since starting IVF. I found out alot about my body that I was clearly not aware of and I must say ..being a woman is hard work and IVF is even harder work. I had my 1st unsuccessful IVF last month and am excited to be moving on the FET. I just want to say Thanks to all the unknow people that helped me without knowing it with all the kind words that have been said to others. I pray for a successful FET for us all .

[ryan1218]

Hi Linz. Good to hear from you. No not back to work yet. I will return in July so it's just right around the cornor, and I'm not looking forward to leaving my baby with someone I don't really know. To top it all off he wont take a bottle. I have been working with him, but he just likes it straight from the tap lol. I guess it's gonna make the transition a little harder for him. I may end up quiting my job if he can't adjust well. I don't want to torture him for a job. He is now 4 months old and a whoping 16 pounds. The boy can eat!! I can't imagine what he will weigh when he starts on solids in two months.

So no af huh. That is nice if you arnt trying to get pregnant right! Hope she shows her face for you soon, or better yet you end up with a nice suprize!! If not then a clomid cycle with be great. So univasive and easy. I remember doing a couple rounds of that and compared to what we usually do its a walk in the park. I can't believe how big Blue is. I bet he is your pride and joy. So glad you checked in and hope to hear more from you in the future.

[ryan1218]

Originally Posted by t&tmcgil

[FONT='Verdana','sans-serif']Hi everyone...It has been a while since I last posted as I have been going through alot since starting IVF. I found out alot about my body that I was clearly not aware of and I must say ..being a woman is hard work and IVF is even harder work. I had my 1st unsuccessful IVF last month and am excited to be moving on the FET. I just want to say Thanks to all the unknow people that helped me without knowing it with all the kind words that have been said to others. I pray for a successful FET for us all .

Sorry bout the failed IVF hope FET is your answer

[t&tmcgil]

Originally Posted by ryan1218

Sorry bout the failed IVF hope FET is your answer

Thank you...me too

[happyfam]

hi everyone first time writer or is it threader? amyways my transfer is tom and im so nervous i feel like i have a yeast infection. does anyone know if that will affect the transfer? i think i cried more today than this entire year

[wannabemommmy]

Originally Posted by happyfam

hi everyone first time writer or is it threader? amyways my transfer is tom and im so nervous i feel like i have a yeast infection. does anyone know if that will affect the transfer? i think i cried more today than this entire year

Happyfam - I dont know that it affect transfer but I wish you Good Luck today and hope everything goes well.
I had yeast infection in my fresh cycle few days after transfer and nurse told me to take monistat.

[ryan1218]

Happy- Congrats on starting your 2ww. I have no idea about the yeast infection, but I'm sure if it was going to be a problem they would let you know. Please keep us updated on your progress and stay positive for those babies or baby in there!!

[Linz712]

Hey Ryan!
Well I'm glad you're not back yet- keep enjoying your summer! Has Jake been to Disney yet? I know you guys love going there! Yes, the not taking a bottle may be tough- you know- its a tough call- I know you'll figure out what the best decision is when it comes time. 4 months and 16 pounds-wow! My little niece Alissa is 8 months and 13- lol and Braiden is I think 16 at 8months- lol- hey- who doesn't love a chubby cheeked little boy, right?!!

yeah- no AF- a surprise would be great- believe me, I've tested a few times- but oh well! We're still really hoping this new job works out for Steve with insurance- should find out anyday. If not- well- we'll figure something out and it just wasn't meant to be. Trying to just enjoy life for now- I know it will all happen when its meant to be- I have Faith!

I know Blue is a monster- but I still love him to pieces- poor guy- his health problems I have a feeling will be a life long fight- he has ear infections right now- sigh- but is such a trooper!

Well hun- take care!

Hi to everyone else!!!

[hopefulmama]

Originally Posted by Linz712

Hi girls! How are you all?

Ryan how are your little ones or shoudl I say your chunky little guy? He is such a cutie! Are you back to work yet? Whats new?

Irena- the boys are getting so big! How are they doing with their physical therapy? And how are you doing? Poor thing- already work put and then having to deal with the tendonitis- that has to be just plain annoying! Ouch!

Joanne! OMG! Congrats on yor BFP!!! Wow!!! How are you doing?

Terri- how you doing hun? Been thinking about you! How's your little kitty?! I hope letting you sleep more!

Megan- How are the twins? And how are you? Are you guys having a good summer?

Audra- how are you? How's your little girl, and how are your sons? Is everyone adjusting to life with a new little one?

Well girls- I'm just hanging in there still! No news really- just busy with work. Still taking the Metformin- but still haven't seen AF since my last failed cycle in Feb- I guess thats been a nice break- lol- but I was hoping the Met. would help me ovulate. No such luck. I broke down and poas with half a hope a few weeks ago just to be sure- no luck- I shoudl probably do that again- I guess you just never really know, right?
We're thinking of doing a Clomid cycle in August- so looking forward to that- kinda. Maybe a FET in November- unless- Steve gets the new job he just had his second interview for with infertility insurance!!!! It would be so awesome in so many ways if he gets this position- so we'll see! Lots of unknows in the future still here!
Just staying busy with work and Blue- oh is he big! He's over 80 pounds now at 10 months- OMG! He ins't fat- he is just long and solid! I specualte he'll end up pushing 95 pounds oh so full grown- I hear that full grown is at a year and a half! We have a big boy on our hands- but is all puppy and is such a lover!

Well gals- I'll try to check in more often!

Linz Glad to hear from you. I'm about that new job for your dh. That would be awesome. I haven't been on in a while. Dh had a kidney stone ans my younger ds had a couple of bouts of strep and they've decided to remove his tonsils in August. His brother might get his tonsils removed on the same day - ugghh. Emma is wonderful - growing like a weed. She's sleeping pretty well now - 8 hours at night - usually 9 to 5 though so I still give her a feed most nights. Other than that I'm working on losing the weight - well working is maybe a stretch since I haven't really started a diet yet. Just hoping the pounds will come off on their own LOL.

Anyway, hope everyone has a good day!

[ryan1218]

Audra sounds like you are doing really well, and so is Emma. Can't believe how time flies. Jake just had his 4 month checkup (even though he's 4 1/2), and I just wanted to cry cause he's soooo big now. Last night was the first night in his crib...well half a night anyway hehe. Hope everyone is well gonna go enjoy me time cause yes it sooo rare these days.

[Godiva4me]

Question for all of you who have done FET: How is the due date calculated? Do they use the same formula as they do for IVF: Retrival date ??? Just curious as I am planning on doing FET in the fall.

Thanks for any info. you can provide!