[surromummy76]

We had FET on Tuesday, and have been quite crampy and a pulling type pain,not so bad 2day, I called the clinic for advice on wot cud b causin the cramps. she told me it wasn't initally a bad sign and could infact b the embryo implanting....didnt think that wud happen that soon after transfer!!!! So now she has got our hopes a little, jus hope we dnt get a BFN now!!!!!

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[wmcgrath]

I had an FET on March 23rd and had the slightest cramping sensations (not nearly bad as a period.) We got our last Wednesday, so the cramping may be a good sign. I wouldn't read into any signs or symptoms, b/c the more I read many early pregnancy symptoms seem to a lot like AF. I know the 2ww is hard, but hang in there. I think the nurse is trying to help to keep you thinking positive. I'll keep you in my thoughts, , wishing you a !

[AzooDude]

r u txting a ltl hrd 2 rd

But seriously...I know it hurts to get your hopes up and have them dashed, but I don't see how this nurse's answer would be responsible for that. You asked her a question about post-transfer cramping that comes up frequently on these boards, and got the same honest, correct answer most women get from each other or their doctors: it's not a clear sign of anything one way or the other, but it could be implantation cramping, so don't panic. That's definitely great news if you were headed toward panic mode, but it's not like the person giving the answer is pumping you full of irrational hope.

Btw, the alternative is for your docs and nurses to take a very cold approach and only give the gloomiest outlooks and neutral-sounding answers, because they rarely get sued for happier-than-expected outcomes. It makes sense from a self-preservation standpoint, but if you've had doctors and nurses like that, you know it's no treat.

Good luck!