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Need support
Hello everyone,
I was wondering if there was anyone with any advice on how long to wait to start a new cycle of IVF. My DH and I just finished our first and got the BFN news on Tuesday. I'd never felt so sad and my heart feels like it's been broken into a million pieces. I've been praying and thanking God for the opportunity to have been able to do a cycle and I trust in Him, but I still feel sad. My DH has been great and very supportive. I am very blessed to have him and I know this is hard on him as well. Even after the BFN I hadn't lost hope b/c I had faith that the test was wrong since everything during the cycle had gone great, but I got my AF yesterday and it's heavy. I guess I just need to accept that God has a different plan for us at this moment. Anyways, I'm just looking for some advice and support and it seems like this is a place full of caring and understanding people. I'd love to hear some of your encouraging stories. May God bless you all.
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ME: 33, dx with Ovarian Tubal Complex and Hydrosalpinx
Wonderful and Supportive DH: 29, perfect
Married: JUL06
Our fur babies
Joey (dog)
Dusty (dog)
Sissy (dog)
Peanut (dog)
TTC since January 2007
TTC natural from JAN07-AUG08
1st lap surgery and HSG: 07AUG08-dx with infertility
1st RE visit: 12FEB09 (husband is deployed, couldn't start w/o him).
JUN09 hubby is home
19AUG09: Tubal Ligation for hydrosalpinx and D/C for uterine polyps. RE recommended this before IVF.
30SEP09: Start cycle with stims. Everything went great.
10OCT09: ER (13 retrieved, 6 fertilized)
13OCT09: ET (ICSI) with 2 beautiful grade 3+ and grade 4 embies), the other 4 didn't make it
27OCT09: After the 2WW:
"Rest in God alone, my soul, for my hope comes from Him"- Psalm 62
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