I am 18 Years old and my fiance and I have been trying to have a baby for a year and a half. I did get pregnant and found out I was having a tubal (ectopic) pregnancy when it was too late. my right tube ruptured and was removed along with a section of my uterous(sorry about spelling). The doctor told me that my left tuble has scar tissue on it and that i am most likely to keep having tubals over and over again. so needless to say my life has a big hole in it. I feel like it will never go away. someone, anyone have any advice? I'm not sure if it will help but it will be nice to know that someone listins and cares!

My sympathy to you. Infertility isn't easy but you're not alone, there are lots of us out there (and here!)
Pregnancy and giving birth isn't the only way to become a parent.
Grieve your loss but know that you can move on to the ultimate goal, which is to become a parent.
One door is closed; another one will open.
Babs

I'm so sorry that you have to go through this.
Infertility is hard, but then coupled with loss
and no guarantees of a future live baby, it can
be devastating. It took me 10 months to
concieve my son, the pregnancy was progressing
fine until pre eclampsia reared it's ugly head...
I had to be delivered at 26 weeks of pregnancy
and my son lived for 22 days and then passed.
I've been told that I can try again, but who knows
if pre eclampsia will hit again. - No live baby and
no guarantee for the future is hard, but adoption
is such a great option!! Did you know that this
is not an option in all countries? A friend of mine
lost her baby in Germany and she was told that
adoption is illegal over there.... anyway, you are
not alone. Please let us know how you are doing
and I wish you much peace and HOPE....

GM

I understand what you are going through. The first five years of my marriage were constantly shadowed by the fact that month after month I was still not pregnant. My best advice is to find a support group so that you have someone to talk to who is going through the same thing. Fortunately, I had a great family and doctor that helped me through it because there were days when I thought I couldn't make it anymore. It doesn't get any easier, but when you have someone to hold your hand through the rough times you don't feel so alone in the whole battle! Good luck and I hope that you can find some peace!