[t2j]

I can see and feel your pain. My former coworker, military gal, got pregnant to get out of the military. Her parenting skills are very lacking....and she can just pop 'em out like nothing, and so very callous about being able to. So sad...

[gingerj]

I can feel your frustration!! It always seems everyone around you is able to get pregnant without all the frustrations we seem to experience!! And you find yourself angry and depressed about it. And then feeling guilty because you feel that way! And then you have those.......who do "pop them out" and have no idea what a blessing a child is!!

I have 4 dogs and although they are aggravating at times, I love 'em and they have been great company to me, as my husband works long hours many days! But then again, I made the comment to my husband the other night, that our fish were even conceiving but we weren't!! We had 2 fish with babies at the same time! Ughhh.

[Disarmed]

I'm new here and the reason I came searching for a forum to talk to people who understand is because my sister in law told me that she's pregnant with her third child yesterday. I've been absolutely nuts today, crying over stupid things and acting like a ***** and I can't tell anyone what's wrong with me. It's horrible to be jealous but she already has two children, as does my other sister in law. It's MY TURN now isn't it? My husband couldn't care less as he doesn't really want to have kids, but I do and I'm the one who's infertile. I feel so confused because I really want to be happy for my sister in law but I'm really so resentful. She hasn't had a job in like 12 years, her boyfriend doesn't really work much, they live off child support from her first child and welfare. I love her dearly and I feel so bad for thinking hateful thoughts, but why does she get to be pregnant again when she doesn't care very well for the children she already has? I'm so glad to see that I'm not the only person who has these nasty thoughts, I just wish I could be pregnant too.

[sarah16]

Oh honey! I have these feelings every day. My biggest problem is judging others who are pregnant! We sat by someone at lunch today who was talking loudly about how she was pregnant with her third child and was going to try and have five. I was like be happy with what you have and this is an inappropriate discussion at lunch!

[babydance143]

I know the feeling..my boxer baby is preggers too..I am so excited!! at first I was like my Goodness even my baby is preggers..and I was down about it! But you have to think positive, you will have yoru turn..precious things take some time!! good luck!!!