Hello. My name is Tiffany. I have been happily married for 4 years last Thursday to a wonderful man. We have been trying to get pregnant for a little over 3 years with no luck. I have tried all kinds of things but nothing seems to work. We haven't gotten to the point of going to a doctor for fertility testing or drugs yet. We both want it to happen naturally, but are getting tired of waiting.

I go thru periods where I get really depressed because I want a baby so bad. And then sometimes I give up hope. I know this sounds very mean, but I find myself giving people who have children dirty looks. I know I shouldn't be that way, but it is so hard not to be. When my sister-in-law announced that she was pregnant with her second child I wanted to ring her neck. Why her? Why not us? I was not happy for her for days. I know that sounds awful, but it's how I felt. And I am SO sick of people saying..."It will happen when it is ment to be..." I just want to look at them and say...SHUT UP! I don't want to hear that!!!

But honestly, I came here in hopes that I can meet and talk with other people about infertility and maybe find something to try that I haven't and to find support from people who actually KNOW what i'm going thru.

Tiffany

Tiffany, your story sounds very similar to mine & my husbands. We have been married for a little over 3 years and have been TTC for 3 years. (We started the month before getting married). I am so sorry to hear about all the painand depression you are delaing with. I do not wish this on anyone.

I hope that you and I both can achieve pregnancy the "Natural" way.

Best wishes
Michelle