[packa]

Hi. My husband and I have been trying to get pregnant for two years. No luck. We have been through several IUIs and will be trying two more and then on the IVF. People say to relax and it will happen. I bet that isn't a new one for anyone to hear. Right now I want to know how to continue to live my life. To enjoy and not to be in pain. I would also like to stop crying anytime someone asks me about, that is if I even let them in on my secret.

Andrea

[Sas789]

Andrea, I am sorry for the pain you are going through. I understand about loses, as I have had 2 miscarriages. Try to find involvement with your signifcant other, family, friends, career, outdoors, any where you can. Staying busy and maybe taking a breather will help. I am in my first IVF cycle now and have a positive outlook on it. Whether it will work for us, I don't know...but I won't give up. You can do this. Give yourself time to heal and time to face any challenge that may lay ahead. If you ever need to talk, let me know.

Ann