Originally Posted By vivian

I have never consulted a doctor about the possability of me or my husband being infertal but we have tried for over 10 years and we feel there is'nt any hope is there anyone who can help me w/ some addvise ! Thank You Vivian

Originally Posted By Gina

My husband and I have been trying for about 4 years now with no success. I have an appointment first of september to see what is wrong.

I suggest you go to the doctor. If it's a matter of money that is keeping you from going you could tell him your concerns and he could at least test you to see if you have ovulated in the last 30 days. The test cost is minimal compared to others.

Gina

Originally Posted By CPMommy

PLEASE go to a doctor it may be something simple. I had a hormone imbalance the doctor put me on birth control pills for several months. Three months after I was removed I became pregnant. Had I not gone to the doctor the situation would not have corrected itself and could have caused some serious health problems. My healthy son is now 2 years old.

LOL
CPMommy

Originally Posted By Isabella

Hi , I can relate to what you are saying. We are in the same boat.

Have you seen a specialist on this matter yet? This would be a good idea. For both of you to go to the doctors.

Even though your husband may have a low sperm count it dont be he is sterile yet.

Let me know if you go to the doctors.

Originally Posted By Karen

Me & My partner have been trying for 7years and have had a few tests. it looks like we will need IVF but we can only afford one go which is £3000.00 I do not know what I would do if it does not work.

I am 28 and my husband is 31.

Hope to hear from you as I would love to be able to chat to someone who is in the same position as me.

Originally Posted By Tina

I've been trying for 3yrs and how do they test you to see if you've ovulated in the last 30 days? Please let me know.
Thanks

HI

me and my husband have been married 14 years without success please do your self a favor go to your obgyn and have test done i have had a sergery done they tought that i had cyst on my overies i didnt im now on fertility treatments (clomid) my second time being on them the first time i was on them i was on for 8 months with no sucess this time i plan on being on them untill i get pregnet i don,t care what the results are if i get pregnet with six i will be the happiest mom on earth we have adopted 4 kids out in those 14 years ages,10,6,7,3, i thank god for them everyday and just because you cant get pregnet doesnt mean you can not be a parent being an adoptive parent is the best reward other than having your own.

please let me know what your doctor says

jennifer