[Deej]

Thanks ladies for all the kind, supportive words after my third IUI...
So plan A did not work out, I dealt with it, and moved on!
Plan B did not work out either. I cried, was angry, sad, depressed, disappointed all at once then realized, it would not help get me pregnant!
SO HERE IS PLAN C
I met with the fertility doctor today (does anybody else have transference issues with their doctor, or just me because I am single), he asked how I was doing. He wanted to know how I am, not just physically but emotionally. We discussed injectibles and clomid. He recommends clomid for now. He feels if the clomid does not work I should have a "lap" done to rule out problems. To date my main problems is lack of s**rm. If we were to do injections, it is more expensive, more tedious, more appointments... and more heartache. So if this round is not successful, we will do the surgery, and from there either jump to IVF or continue w/ IUI based on the findings. All last night I was gearing up to give myself shots, etc... But it appears I will do clomid.
Wishing all of you BFP's sooner than later...
Thank you again for cheering me on. I will definately be looking at the clomid threads... without you ladies sharing your experiences, I would be terrified and probably too afraid to move forward. So thank you again.
in case you were wondering A: get married, have sex, have children B: unmedicated IUI C: IUI w/clomid. Thank goodness there are many letters in the alphabet, because I ain't giving up yet!

[Ladybuglee]

I'm so glad you have a plan C, Deej! Sometimes just having a plan helps to alleviate some of the pain from a BFN (just a little). You have a great attitude! I achieved plan A except for the kid part! Whatever plan gets us to our BFP is the right one. Good luck, hon - I've never done Clomid but I know you'll get lots of info on it here.

[AmyK]

I just signed on to PM you and ask how it went today. Really, clomid wasn't that bad and I will be here if you need to talk. My RE wants to keep me on clomid for now too. I will have a HSG done in early January.

I wish you success with this next cycle!!! I pray you will not need anymore letters of the alphabet because C will be the answer!!!

BTW, as a married person...I dig my RE too. He looks like James Spader (Pretty in Pink) and is really nice. We ahd a great visit yesterday and I feel really positive about the next cycle!

[thunder]

Good luck on your plan C!!!


p.s.: just stay strong and we are here every step of the way!!

Hugs,

[lilac]

Good luck on plan C! Third plan's the charm!

[Deej]

Thank you for the encouragement
Ladybug: i hope i am allowed to go back to plan A and try for the husband!
Lilac:yes, let the third PLAN be the charm
thunder: thank you for letting me know you will be here... i will need the support
amy k: i will be asking for clomid advice. James Spader? I love him. I love Boston Legal.

[lilac]

Plan A is pretty much ongoing for me too. Hope Plan C is a rousing success and Plan A happens for you too!

At least none of us ever lack support and encouragement here.

[hannah01]

hey there, i'm really sorry your iui didn't work out this cycle. as we were talking about the other day, i think having a plan is good and helps you to look forward. clomid isn't that bad, i did it for 3 cycles. it can make you moody, but what doesn't in this whole IF process. you still have a LOT of options to try so stay positive. again i'm really sorry about this cycle. you're a strong girl and i know you'll get your bfp so hang on ... it's a rough ride but you WILL get there.

[sarah16]

I love plans, they make me feel so in control. Remember if you get to Z you can go back to AA!!!! Good luck girl!

[historyteach]

it sounds like an awesome plan, best wishes!