Beautiful Day,
((((HUGS))))
I am sorry I am sure that yesterday was a hard day with everything you found out. DH and I are also LDS and adopted a beautiful baby girl last year. I wish I had more info on sperm donation for you. A similar topic was discussed in the LDS adoptive parents forum last year. I am posting the link as it might be helpful to you:

http://forums.adoption.com/showthread.php?t=144161

Good luck and I hope your journey to have a family is achieved soon .

~Rachel

[waitingforlife]

Sunday i had my first IUI with donor sperm. My hubby had zero count and this was our only option besides adopting. He has had issues with it and once it was done he really had a hard time with it. Ive been searching and searching for support groups for him on this topic but have had no luck. The doctor and nurses say this is very common in this situation and once you find out your pregant all is forgotten about how it happened. I would love to know that forsure. I have to wait 2 weeks to know if it worked. I used the CA cryobank very nice place with a ton of options
I loved to hear anyone elses experience with this.