[ara79]

i was just flipping the channels and came across the show nanny 911. i am so upset by what i saw. a mother was yelling at her daughter, who was probably 3 0r 4, "i am so f-ing pissed at you!" and the boys (all between 2 and 7) were out of control. they all hit and scream at each other. the older boy SCREAMED at his dad "i want to kill you". this is horrible! WHY!!!??? do people like this get BLESSED with FIVE children when we have to go through this. i know, i know (things happen for a reason, blah, blah, blah) i just don't get it. this mom is making me sick to my stomach. any one else watching this?
amy

[jenedens6102]

My SIL is like that with my niece and it's definitely hard to watch. Especially with us going through our struggle and there is her blessing and she doesn't even know it. Her language was so bad that by the time my niece was just over one she was cussing in full swing. She knew every word in the book and used it often. Now that she's two we've been trying to break her of those words but she still knows them and now knows what they mean. It's horrible.

[einstein]

I swear that kids behave because of the way people parent them. A child's behavior can't really be blamed on him, it's all about the parents. If you use curse words around your kids, don't you think they will toss them around, too?

I know that some days can be very, very hard and you feel upset and frustrated, but there are ways to control yourself. I've had some days where I felt like the boys were being really bad and I was getting really upset and on the verge of losing it. I remember that they are only toddlers and I have to watch the things I say and how I say them.

Parenting is a tough job, believe me! But if a couple is having problems with one or two kids, why oh why do they continue to crank out more babies? It makes no sense!