[wwells5]

Interesting to see this thread and that The Secret was on Oprah. My best friend came to town a few weeks ago and brought it for me to watch. I found it inspiring as well. Hope you all enjoy it too! I think I need to buy the book since part of me had a hard time looking past the cheesy production/infomercial feel.

Wendy

[Faith]

Hi Wendy,
I bought the book yesterday and my DH and I are reading it. It's repetitive, but helpful for me. A great way to think. It helped me get through our BFN yesterday.

[wwells5]

Faith,

So sorry about your bfn. I'm glad to hear that you've found a source to help deal with the frustration of the situation. It's taken me so long to bounce back mentally from a chemical pg back in Nov. I too am looking for some assistance in having a more positive attitude and renewed hope. So far imagery which seems to be the core of The Secret seems to be the best fit for me. I need to buy the book! Good luck to you! From now on I'm not going to imagine a bfp (since I had one of those!), but instead a happy healthy child in my arms and home!

Wendy

[FurBaby]

Wendy,

You're so right, that's exactly what you should focus on. That's what we are doing. We did finally watch the dvd last night, and the book is on order. DH actually read another book with the same principals in place, that one is called "The intention Experiment" for those interested.
There are alot of changes that we are making in our lives. Most importantly negativity is no longer welcome in our home.
We have our baby room, which is our intention room, we have a few baby items in there, and this is where we do our focusing.

It is very difficult to stay positive all the time. I had a bad moment last night, an angry moment. I don't know what brought it on, but DH helped me through it.

Good luck to us all, and yes we will accomplish our goals

Hugs,

[indianagirl]

Just wanted to give you an update and let you know that Oprah is having another show on the Secret on Friday. I think that the Secret generated a lot of buzz so this is a follow up show. I bought the DVD and watched it. I thought the focus on positiveness and what you give out you get back makes sense. The two questions I have are how does God fit into the Law of Attraction and what about the bad things that happen to good people....are they really "attracting" that?