[jenjean]

well tuesday is the day i get to take a preg test. ive had to wait becouse of the hcg shot. im so nervous.
keep your fingers crossed for me.
i have some of the symptoms for preg, but it could just be me over watching my self.
i am really glad i found this group, it so nice to beable to talk to people that know what it fells like month after month. well i was just wondering if any one eles was going through the waiting game?

[mrsrodgers]

I completely am in the waiting game as well....I am waiting to take my HPT on Wednesday as that will be the "official" end of my 2ww....I have been afraid to try to early....I feel as though I have symptoms and then there are days I don't think it will ever work. I don't know if it is just from coming off the drugs or just wishful thinking....I am for you and sending you & ...hope you get a on Tuesday.....

[dndtaylor]

Ladies I feel ya. Wed is my big day and I'm going nuts I think? I can't wait for the weekend to be over so I can just get through Mon/Tues. I'm not going to do a HPT, I just can't bring myself to do it. I want the "official" BFP from the RE. Best of luck to us all, you are not alone for sure! Hug.s

[jenjean]

well i just couldn't wait so i tested on sunday morning. it was neg, i am so sad. i really just dont know how much longer i can take this month after month and no baby. every one around me is preg. what could i have done to deserve this. six years of not using anythig for protection and at least two years off and on of fertility drugs and now feeling so hopefull and with a two min test to take everything away from me. how do you guys do this month after month? my dh just dont know what to say or do anymore. sorry im venting so much im just frustrated.

[mrsrodgers]

Hey don't feel bad....we all understand....I got on Sunday so I didn't even get the chance to take the HPT.....I asked my DH how many times we should put ourselves through this....he is open to as long as I feel I can handle it but I just don't know how much more I can take of it.....

[foxxy]

Ladies, I feel the pain too! My 2ww ended on last Wed. when I spotted and just new it was . I asked myself the same question, "how many more times do I have to do this"?

I just met with RE today and he said everything was perfect with me (we are using donor sperm which also was very good). So of course I asked, "why didn't it work"? RE truly feels bad, but unfortunately its a crap shoot. And doing IUI only gives us couples 10-15% more of a chance than the average couple trying to conceive naturally.

We really want to do all we can to get pregnant, so that's what we are going to do until our money runs out which will be in 4 months! Then we will move on to other options, but we are for a VERY SOON!!!

Don't give up ladies....it isn't the easiest thing to do, but chin up and keep on pluggin' away until we get that !!!!