[mondk]

My dh and I had sex tonight for the first time in 2 months; I had almost forgotten what sex was, heehee. Anyway, we tried all different positions and I was my wild in bed silly old self, I tried talking dirty and got to laughing...anyway, try as he might, he could not ejaculate and was really upset. Do any of you know what might cause that? I know he is really stressed and very tired because he doesn't have a set schedule with his job. One day he might drive at night, have a few hours off, then have to drive during the day.

Can you girls think of anything physiological that could be wrong and should he get checked out?

Also, he is huge and when we go without like we did, I end up bleeding...but my period is late so I'm sure my cervix is very low in my body right now so I'm not too worried about that...I'm more worried for him. He told me it made him feel like a failure.

?????

Blessings, Michelle

P.S. Sorry if this question offended or embarassed anybody!

[frymomma2b]

OMG hunn at least he got it up! Tell him he is not a failure! lol My dh cant rise to the occation the last week he says hes stressed about fertility. He was so upset he punched a hole in the wall yesterday....(its happened like 6 times in a week). I dont know if its that or me but either way i would just like to get some action lmao. I am sure your dh will even out and be able to "go" its all in their heads. I KNOW THAT DONT MAKE IT ANY BETTER. As for the bleeding...I had a very great lover when dh and i split up about three months ago (he cheated < see we have huge problems lol) and he was large and i bled the first week and a few times after that if i would go a couple days with out so i guess that is just normal although if it has not happened with you before i would suggest seeing you ob/gyn about it cuz might be worth knowing. I had sever cramping too so they thik mine is endo.

[Nala]

Hi Michelle... After reading your post I asked around to some friends to see if I would be able to help... There are many reasons that can make your DH not ejculate, sterss can absolutely be one and also you said you did it for the 1st time in 2 months right??? well, if he has been "playing" with him self too much it might also affect him.... Regarding the bleeding, I agree with frymomma2b, you should ask your Dr. maybe it would help if you use some lube???

[Kellileanne]

DH would have this problem. Mostly when playing with himself too much through the week (we were lucky to get once a week--was usually once a month) but also with stress. But I would bleed. Not sure why but it was never till the next day??? Strange, I know. It was never really that much but it was there. And, more lube didn't help for me and only made it worse for him. Good Luck, I know how hard it is to deal with knowing they feel soo bad.

[mondk]

Well, he used to masturbate a lot, but he says he's so tired out on the road that when his head hits the pillow, he's out like a light. He usually tells me when he masturbates because he knows it turns me on to think of him doing that, so I know he hasn't been.

We had sex again today but I was on top this time and he ejaculated right away...and I bled again.

Thanks for all the responses and support!

Blessings, Michelle