[Kellileanne]

We had an appointment to get family pictures today but dh has backed out at the last minute. Completely refuses. I don't know why I believe anything he says anymore.

[megsc]

Sounds dumb but why? What's up w/ that, don't you have to pay anyway? Doesn't he want pix w/ y'all if he is leaving...is he still leaving?

[Mom2MandyandTristan]

I am so sorry to hear DH is not on board with the pics. Did he give a reason?

[AMKD]

That's odd - did he give any indication before this that he didn't want to do it, or was this out of the clear blue? He's been acting strange lately, from what you have told us. Hope everything is ok.

[BabySteps]

I am sorry that happened to you. It's kind of sad. Is he camera shy or is there more to his last minute decision?

[gracesmom]

What's up with that? Does he care to explain?

[JustPeachy]

I'm sorry you and dh seem to be having such a rough time right now He absolutely should have been there and wanted family pictures before leaving for his duty.

[jenedens6102]

I can't believe he backed out of pictures at the last minute. I just don't know what to think about him right now. Something sounds off with him these days and I'm sorry for that.

[Kellileanne]

Says we can't afford it (yeah, all of the sudden, we were talking about doing it just last night). He has been acting really wierd lately and yes, he is still leaving on Tuesday. I don't know what is going on, I can only get little bits and pieces out of him. He irratically talks about declaring bankrupcy, selling the house, just selling anything and everything he can get his hands on. He is freaked out and thinks we are in so much debt when really we aren't that bad off, he just thinks we are.

[mazariee]

Wow Kelli I am so sorry to hear about this. Has he sat down with you and actually gone through what you owe and what income is coming in to know for sure what your financial status is. I know I freak about our finances at times but this is why I am the one who handles them so I know if we need to cut back or not.

Hugs!!

[Kellileanne]

Yeah, we have gone through it all and we really aren't all that bad off. His credit cards are whats freaking him out. There have been a lot of things over the last couple of years that he put on his credit card that he could have easily lived without (iphone, blackberry, computerstuff, all kinds of gagets, etc). There are other things like tuition that he should have gotten student loans for (I told him to get student loans but he didn't listen) and then the required home improvements when something went wrong with the house. My stuff is probably a quarter of his stuff but I feel like I am being punished for his!