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Old 06-23-2009, 05:20 PM
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How We Are Coping....

Hi everyone, just wanted to update you all on what we've been up to lately. As most of you know, my twins Calvin and Georgia were born November 10 2008 at BC Children's Hospital. Calvin had an extemely rare form of Truncus Arteriosus, a complex congenital heart defect. Calvin passed away due to complications from open heart surgery at six days old. This is how we've been working to honour our son's life:


BC Children's Hospital Foundation
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Me:37/ Antiphospholipid Antibody Syndrome
DH: 29/Perfect
TTC: Oct/2003

Oct. 10 2003
M/C Oct. 31

Feb 4 2004
M/C Feb 28

August 28 2004
M/C Sept. 17

Jan. 11 2005
March 5 Heartbeat!!!
May 19 20 weeks...
August 23 2005...36 weeks
Placental abruption/emergency c-section...Thank you God!!! Baby got out safely!!!
It's a girl!!! Daughter Lorelei is born...

March 28 2007
May 24 no heartbeat
D&C May 29
Pathology indicates Turner Syndrome

February 28 2008 start Clomid
April 4
April 10 BHCG 8600
May 11 U/S....TWINS!!!
May 30 Nuchal Translucency..so far so good.
July 15 Fetal Anatomy U/S Twin A- A girl/ healthy!!! Twin B-A boy w/congenital heart defect

Nov. 10 2008...ruptured membranes, Georgia Leigh 7lbs 10 oz and Calvin Zachary 6lbs 14 oz are born!!!
Nov. 16 2008...Calvin passes away due to complications from open heart surgery...God rest my angel.
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Old 06-23-2009, 05:32 PM
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What a wonderful way to honor your sweet angel.
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DH: 37 - perfect

TTC 2 years

10/24/06 +hpt
11/29/06 missed m/c-D & C

10/25/07 first visit to RE
10/30/07 HSG-tubes are clear
3/4/08 lap-found and removed stage 2 endo
5/08-IUI w/clomid and injectables. Didn't need to--->
4/26/08- on hpt!!! Natural Cycle
4/28/08-1st Beta 15 dpo-516!
4/30/08-2nd Beta 17 dpo-1286! Grow baby grow!
5/14/08-1st U/S-one perfect heartbeat!
5/21/08-2nd U/S-baby measuring on schedule!
7/28/08-Level II ultrasound-It's a
GIRL!!!

TTC #2 since July '09 - naturally for now.






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Old 06-23-2009, 05:33 PM
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What a wonderful way to honor Calvin. It's a great thing that you are doing, and I know he is very proud of you both. You're story touched me deeply and I think of you and your family often. Thank you for sharing this with us, and congrats to you for raising money for this cause.
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TTC #1 for 2.5+ years
ME: (Amy) 28, tubal damage
DH: (Chris) 30, perfect!
3 IUI cycles cancelled due to a # of problems & 1 cycle resulting in BFN
1/12 BFP on natural cycle,ectopic pregnancy ended 1/23/07
1st IVF:
2/7- ER- 17 eggies!!
2/10-ET 2 8-cell
6dp3dt, 7dp3dt hpt= God is so good!
Betas: 2/22= 170, 2/25= 499, 2/29=2857
1st u/s 3/13 (My wedding anniversary!) 140 BEAUTIFUL bpm!
2nd u/s 3/27 - WOW! The growth is amazing! 182 bpm
U/S 5/27/08 GO TEAM BLUE!!!
OMG THEY WERE WRONG! We've switched teams...we're now THINKING PINK!!!


Going for baby #2!
FET October 6th - BFN
I realize I'm blessed beyond measure, and I have tons of faith that God has more blessings in store for me...gotta keep on trying!

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Old 06-23-2009, 05:44 PM
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wow...that truly is a wonderful way to honor Calvin
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DH: 34 Perfect
Etienne , Jake , Sam (cats) Maggie (iguana)
TTC #1: 2 yrs
2 m/c (Aug '06 and Jan '07), 1 ectopic pg (lost left tube)

5 IUI's

5/27: beta #1: 716!!!! (17dpo) Natural cycle!
5/29: beta #2: 1885!!!!
6/1: early u/s-1 sac/yolk
6/9: u/s#2-saw and heard hb! 114 bpm. Measuring 6w2d
6/17: u/s #3- hb 154 bpm. Measuring 7w3d
7/1: u/s #4- hb 161 bpm. Measuring 9w4d
7/9: first OB appt.-u/s #5- hb 152 bpm. Measuring 10w4d
7/17-NT scan-everything looks great! Measuring 11w6d
8/14-quad screen (quick gender check):
IT'S A BOY!!!

2/2/09: c-section scheduled!




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Old 06-23-2009, 09:10 PM
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Margaret - I posted a reply on our due date thread, but wanted to pop in here to tell you how amazing you and Shane are. Georgia is lucky to have you as her parents and little Calvin is smiling down on you, I know it. What a wonderful thing you're doing - it will help so many other children.
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Me 35/DH 40
TTC 4 yrs
DH dx - 6% morphology & 29% DNA Fragmentation in sperm
My dx - low egg quality/FSH 12 on Day 10
6 months clomid, 1 IUI: BFNs
#1 IVF Fresh May '06: anembryonic preg/blighted ovum #2 IVF Fresh Oct '06: chem preg #3 IVF FET Dec '06: BFN #4 IVF Fresh Jan '07: BFN
#5 IVF Donor Egg Cycle
Donor ER Feb 17 - 15 eggs, 14 mature, 10 fertilized through ICSI
ET Feb 22 - Day 5 transferred 1 blast - froze 4 blasts
1st beta 13dpER = 181 2nd beta 15dpER = 474
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IT'S A GIRL!!!
Due Date: November 8
Delivered: October 25 at 7:45pm, 7lb11oz, 19in
Linnea Mae Simon is here!


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Old 06-30-2009, 07:19 PM
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Thanks Kristen, I don't think it's that we are particularly amazing, we just needed some good to come out of what we went through in losing our son. Some sunshine through the rain I guess....If anything we do helps one family to not lose their child, then it will be completely worth it in the end.
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Me:37/ Antiphospholipid Antibody Syndrome
DH: 29/Perfect
TTC: Oct/2003

Oct. 10 2003
M/C Oct. 31

Feb 4 2004
M/C Feb 28

August 28 2004
M/C Sept. 17

Jan. 11 2005
March 5 Heartbeat!!!
May 19 20 weeks...
August 23 2005...36 weeks
Placental abruption/emergency c-section...Thank you God!!! Baby got out safely!!!
It's a girl!!! Daughter Lorelei is born...

March 28 2007
May 24 no heartbeat
D&C May 29
Pathology indicates Turner Syndrome

February 28 2008 start Clomid
April 4
April 10 BHCG 8600
May 11 U/S....TWINS!!!
May 30 Nuchal Translucency..so far so good.
July 15 Fetal Anatomy U/S Twin A- A girl/ healthy!!! Twin B-A boy w/congenital heart defect

Nov. 10 2008...ruptured membranes, Georgia Leigh 7lbs 10 oz and Calvin Zachary 6lbs 14 oz are born!!!
Nov. 16 2008...Calvin passes away due to complications from open heart surgery...God rest my angel.
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