[hopefulmama]

Jenn

I'm so so sorry for the loss of your 2 little angels. I understand the desire to try again ASAP. I felt the same after we lost our son William. I felt so empty inside - to not be pregnant anymore yet not have a baby was tough. I needed hope. My Dr said we could try after 3 months. We did start then but had trouble conceiving. As far as my dh goes he was so focused on me feeling better that he was up for either waiting or trying right away. I was a basket case so.... Going to a grief counselor can help especially if you're on different pages as far as how to handle ttc. As far as I can tell from my support group people seem to either want to try again ASAP or want to wait a while/ never want to try again. At least that's what I've observed. Be patient - he just needs time to grieve I'm sure. Talking about it is so important.