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07-14-2009, 05:03 PM
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OMG this cant be happening....AGAIN
DH and I did the baby dance last night I had a bit of bright red blood that completely stopped right after... My RE brought me in for an ultrasound "just to be safe " today We had already seen a normal heart rate last week. We found out our baby died shortly after the last ultrasound...
WE had a miscarriage in Nov after seeing a (slow) heart rate as well They tell me because of my age if I did IVF again ($10000) it could happen again likely. I cant take the pain. My RE was shocked he really thought we were ok.. I had twins from ivf 7 years ago with no problems Im remarried and DH has no biological children. We are devestated 40 isnt that old and we saw the heart rate both times... Im beside myself and cant believe this is happening..... 
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Me 40 No known issues DH 33Had low count now resolved completely Noah and Olivia 7 y/o Boy girl twins from IVF 6/08 Clomid IUI  7/08 femera IUI 8/08 femera IUI 9/08 fermera IUI 10/08 IUI Gonal F 3 Follicles! 11/08  11/26/08 One embro Heart Rate 96 11/30/08 Heartbeat gone  2/9 and 2/10 Double IUI with menopur 3-4 possible mature follies and many small 2/23 Overstimulated BCP for 2-3 weeks 3/09 IUI 4/09 IUI May 09 IVF with Gonal F , Ganirelix, Menopur June 4 ER 11 !! June 5 9 Fertilized! June 7 Transfered 4 Embroys 2 8's, 1 7 and a 6 June 15 9 days post transfer weak BFP June 16 stronger BFP HPT  June 19 157 !!!!!!!!!!!!!!  June 23 Second Beta 830 June 25 First ultrasound 1 maybe 2??? July 1 second ultrasound growing.. yolk sac seen July 9 Third ultrasound heart rate 120! July 14 heartbeat is gone there are no words to express the grief
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07-14-2009, 05:18 PM
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I'm so sorry to hear this.  I know how devastating it is to see the heartbeat and then mc. Almost the exact same thing happened to me. If you want to chat, PM me. You are in my thoughts and prayers. Again, I'm so sorry to hear this.
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Jeska Me- 25 Insulin Resistant, PCOS, MTHFR one copy DH- 41 Healthy 3 Fur Babies (Dachshunds)  Bubs Sis Pinky 10/06- start TTC 12/07-5/08 Clomid 6/08- Femara/Novarel 10/08- Menopur 11/1/08- Menopur 8w1d 3/17/09- Menopur D&C 12w1d 2 boys with no chromosonal abnormalitieshttp://journeytomommyville.blogspot.com
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07-14-2009, 05:27 PM
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I am so sorry for your loss. Did your doctor do any further blood testing on you and/or DH? Several ladies on here that have m/c have had tests to check for antiphosphoidal antiboties and a few other things. If you have any of these problems, they can add medication to the mix and it allows you to carry the pregnancy.... just food for thought. I know that a lady 'imagicat' and "Sanda" found this to be their cases.... you may want to look into that! I know I read about these tests when I miscarried and came to this forum.
Again, I am so sorry you are having to experience this pain again! May time help heal your heart!
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Stephanie ********* IVF #1 ER 4/14 (lucky 14, 14 eggs-all fertilized!) ET 4/19 - 2 AA extended blastocyts & have 8 snowembies!!  HPT- 7dpt & 8dpt= BFP!! Beta #1- 8dpt= 92! Beta #2 10dpt= 192! u/s -5/14/09 due to bleeding(severe SCH) 5/22 M/C naturally process begins(lets get this over with!) Beta HCG Checks: 5/29( down to 697), 6/5 ( down to 269), 6/12(down to 136), 6/18(down to 38) , 6/30(down to 12!), 7/7(down to 8), 7/13- FINALLY below 5!!! Yippee! Cycle #2-FET: 8/28 After 6 wks on bcp, cycle postponed 9/30 1st mega shot of Lupron-Depot, 10/29 second shot FET - on hold til 2010  ! 
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07-14-2009, 07:57 PM
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Yes they did all that the last time. Its so frustrating. Both were at the same time in my pregnancy
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Me 40 No known issues DH 33Had low count now resolved completely Noah and Olivia 7 y/o Boy girl twins from IVF 6/08 Clomid IUI 7/08 femera IUI 8/08 femera IUI 9/08 fermera IUI 10/08 IUI Gonal F 3 Follicles! 11/08 11/26/08 One embro Heart Rate 96 11/30/08 Heartbeat gone 2/9 and 2/10 Double IUI with menopur 3-4 possible mature follies and many small 2/23 Overstimulated BCP for 2-3 weeks 3/09 IUI 4/09 IUI May 09 IVF with Gonal F , Ganirelix, Menopur June 4 ER 11 !! June 5 9 Fertilized! June 7 Transfered 4 Embroys 2 8's, 1 7 and a 6 June 15 9 days post transfer weak BFP June 16 stronger BFP HPT June 19 157 !!!!!!!!!!!!!! June 23 Second Beta 830 June 25 First ultrasound 1 maybe 2??? July 1 second ultrasound growing.. yolk sac seen July 9 Third ultrasound heart rate 120! July 14 heartbeat is gone there are no words to express the grief
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07-14-2009, 08:34 PM
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I am so, so sorry for your loss.
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 TTC #1 for 2.5+ years ME: (Amy) 28, tubal damage DH: (Chris) 30, perfect! 3 IUI cycles cancelled due to a # of problems & 1 cycle resulting in BFN 1/12 BFP on natural cycle,ectopic pregnancy ended 1/23/07 1st IVF: 2/7- ER- 17 eggies!! 2/10-ET 2 8-cell 6dp3dt, 7dp3dt hpt= God is so good! Betas: 2/22= 170, 2/25= 499, 2/29=2857 1st u/s 3/13 (My wedding anniversary!) 140 BEAUTIFUL bpm! 2nd u/s 3/27 - WOW! The growth is amazing! 182 bpm U/S 5/27/08 GO TEAM BLUE!!! OMG THEY WERE WRONG! We've switched teams...we're now THINKING PINK!!!   Going for baby #2! FET October 6th - BFN I realize I'm blessed beyond measure, and I have tons of faith that God has more blessings in store for me...gotta keep on trying! My Etsy store: http://www.etsy.com/shop.php?user_id=7002529
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07-14-2009, 10:40 PM
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I am so sorry about your loss I know the feeling. You are right 40 is not that old and I have to believe that the Gods will bless you with another baby. I know it is hard hang in there and know that you are in many of our thoughts. Best of luck honey...
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ME 23: PCOS DH 37: normal so far Married since April 4, 2008 furbabies x 4Athena 2 Tobby 2 Prizz 4 Buttercup 1 TTC: 2+ years 2/2009- miscarriage 
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07-15-2009, 07:18 AM
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I'm really so sorry for your loss.
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Me - 36, DH - 32 No.1 took 3 years/ 2 failed IUI's: DD born: 08-17-04 TTC No.2 - Since '05 HSG 1/5/07 - tubes clear but clubbed SA: 1/10/07 - DH: 92% poor morp 1st IVF- April '07 - trial study, BFP-missed miscarriage - 6/29 - D&C 1st FET, Oct '07 - BFN 2nd IVF, Feb '08 - trial study BFN 2nd FET April '08 - BFN 3rd IVF (Not trial study) BFP 1st OB visit: HB in the 160s. SCH & low placenta Gender Scan: 12/17: It's a BOY! Everything looks great. Isaac born: 05 15 2009 @ 4:02AM, 9lb 3oz, 20 inches long 1 month checkup: 11 lb 4 oz, 22 inches 2 month checkup: 14 lb 4 oz 24 inches 4 months checkup: 17 lb 8 oz 26 inches 
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07-15-2009, 08:14 PM
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I'm so sorry for ur loss.
My thoughts and prayers r with u .
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*** Wanessa *** Me - 26yrs old - PCOS DH - 29yrs old - Klinefelters TTC#1 since Sept 2007 08/13/08 - DH dx with klinefelter's 12/08 - 50mg Clomid - no follies 01/13 - IUI #1- BFN 02/28 - IUI#2- BFN 04/25-IUI#3 - 07/13 - D&C 10/05 - IUI#4 - BNF 10/28 - Fibroid removal Upcoming: 11/14-11/27 - Vacation - taking BCP 11/30 - RE appt-baseline u/s?   Brand new blog about our journey to parenthood. http://odysseytoparenthood.wordpress.com Our new blog about our experiences http://wtbocianski.wordpress.com
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