[smr302]

I just wanted to say that I am so sorry for your loss.

Stacey.

[TiffanyK]

I understand what you are going through
I have just recently 10/24/09 suffered a loss because my water broke at 17 weeks. I am so full of anger. My daughter who is now 4 and a half was born at 27 weeks and was in the NICU for 7 weeks. She is now very healthy. I was so afraid to go through that again that we waited to try to get pregnant. I did get pregnant this past july and my dr Started me on Prog. shots at 16 weeks after my 2nd shot I was 17 and 3/4th weeks along I went on a shopping trip in New york City and my water broke. They told me there was nothiing to do for the baby because it was so early. I delivered 7 hours after my water broke. My little angel never had a chance. I am so Angry I don't understand why this happened to me. I am so tired of hearing the words that people think will comfort me. I prayed everyday that this baby would be born full term and healthy and even my little girl prayed for this baby. For some reason God decided not to answer our prayers. It is so hard because this happened one week ago and my sister is due to have a little one any day now. I feel like I just can't take it. I want to try again in the future but I am so afraid. after 2 difficult pregnancys its hard to know what to do.

[MrsM]

Originally Posted by TiffanyK

I understand what you are going through
I have just recently 10/24/09 suffered a loss because my water broke at 17 weeks. I am so full of anger. My daughter who is now 4 and a half was born at 27 weeks and was in the NICU for 7 weeks. She is now very healthy. I was so afraid to go through that again that we waited to try to get pregnant. I did get pregnant this past july and my dr Started me on Prog. shots at 16 weeks after my 2nd shot I was 17 and 3/4th weeks along I went on a shopping trip in New york City and my water broke. They told me there was nothiing to do for the baby because it was so early. I delivered 7 hours after my water broke. My little angel never had a chance. I am so Angry I don't understand why this happened to me. I am so tired of hearing the words that people think will comfort me. I prayed everyday that this baby would be born full term and healthy and even my little girl prayed for this baby. For some reason God decided not to answer our prayers. It is so hard because this happened one week ago and my sister is due to have a little one any day now. I feel like I just can't take it. I want to try again in the future but I am so afraid. after 2 difficult pregnancys its hard to know what to do.

TiffanyK - I am so so sorry for your loss. I know how devastating it is, and your pain is so fresh right now. There are no words to say, I know how you feel, unfortunately there are too many of us here that have suffered these kinds of losses that are so unexpected. I know for myself, all I could think of even during the loss was how badly I wanted to be pregnant again, of course I wanted our son so much, but we want to be parents, we don't have any other children which makes it all the more painful. Just take the time you need to grieve, you will never forget your baby, but just give yourself all the time you need to cry and be sad. When you feel ready, you will try again and of course it will be scary, but you will get through it. I wish you all the best...

[dylansmommy]

mrsm i am so sorry...may your little angel always rest in your heart...