I am so sorry for your loss. It breaks my heart that you must endure not only infertility itself, but also this loss. I have lost two pregnancies early and the horrible things people say, but it should not be coming from professionals. Take time to care for yourself during this difficulty time- it will come up in all kinds of ways. But don't give up hope or faith.
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Me (Jessica) 30 = Unexplained
(Tight cervix, Low +IGM antibodies)
DH= 31, no probs
Bryce (Lab/ Golden mix) Maya (Shih Tzu)
cats: Picabo Bucky
Married 8/02/2003; TTC since 12/2005 (almost 4 yrs)
Total: 10 IUI's (2 RE's since 2007, on and off with breaks)
(3xclomid, 2xFollistim) all BFN
3 tries with Femara- 2x lost both
6/1/2009- Natural M/C 6 wks
Rhogam Shot- Type O- & slow rising HCG but did double
8/3/2009- Chemical
Persistent cysts summer 2009 On to IVF #1
currently on bcp & lupron
11/22- off bcp
Week of 11/23- start stims
ER/ET 12/6ish week
will need stitch in cervix for ET
baby aspirin after ER
regular acupuncture in IVF process- on and off for 2 years
"Tough times never last, but tough people do."- Robert H. Schuller
Thank you Jessica for your kind words. I'm sorry that you have had to endure this type of loss as well. I am struggling with not giving up my faith. It is something that is very hard for me.