[belynda]

I really want a child, I have a 30 per cent of having children. When my 17 year old sister fell pregnant, i felt a sorrow, because i have lost 3 babies, and now i want one more than ever, I am getting sick of people telling me that i should wait, but i am scared that if i wait a couple of years that i will not be able to have children at all. My partner already has one child from his last girlfriend, he wants more children, but we are scared to try again.
I have had number of tests done to see why i can't carry children, but the doctors can't seem to figure it out, i am getting sick waiting, i just want a child...

[einstein]

Have you gone to an RE (reproductive endocrinologist) yet? If not, then you need to find one. If you are seeing an RE, he/she needs to take a more aggressive stance in finding out why you are having m/c. After three of them, there should be major testing going on and a new plan mapped out for you. You can't possibly endure any more sadness and disappointment. If your own RE isn't doing much to help you, consider finding a new one.

I wish you lots of luck.