[jencat215]

Originally Posted by tamtam

shelly so glad things have gone well and you and dh are happy but you sound like your leaving?

I have a question. I am pregnant again and I am excited, but scared. did anyone else have trouble bonding w/ pregnancy after m/c. It feels like this could just end any second again and i don't want to get excited b/c of it.

same way about the hair need a relaxer bad, but hurt my back so can't stand to do myself and can't sit in a washing chair to have it done...ugh!

jen how long is ur hair?

Tam-I am so excited that you are pg! Of course we were all scared when we got pg again. Going through a m/c really does take something out of things for you. But you will get past that. Try and focus on the positive, that is so important. And cherish every little milestone. We'll help you along the way

My hair? It is too far from the top of my rear It covers my enormous jugs in the front and a bit past. I don't do bangs (used to break out on my forehead as a kid when I ran around in the humid FL sun!). I am pretty curious to see how long it will get. I am not highlighting it because I really want to donate it. Maybe when I can't take the color anymore and need to go in for a dye job, then I will cut it. But I need to find a good stylist! Ugh! Until then, I will suffer. Oh, my hair is so long when I try to braid it myself, my arms really start aching before I finish!

[MissBish]

I missed alot...and Susan...are you okay? Why are you going walking right now to the firestation in the dark. I hope I just read that right.


Hi Jen - do you think the vicoden after my lump surgery caused the flare up? I took one last night because I was having pain...and then today was when it got worse. So back up on the predn. I am not constipated at all (remember I have the opposite problem). Its all about blood with me. GROSS I know...sorrry everybody.

Rach - so much to chat with you about. First off, ditch the stylist! one thing that I will not tolerate is when my stylist is working on someone else while i am there. Also this time around bring your stuff but don't remove it from the car...f w/ SIL and say, "I'm sorry, why can't we use the such and such"...I would totally lose it on her. But then again I am a raging biatch right now on steriods.

More personals later.

I was glad to get out of the bar. It was nice to see my friends play, but I was bored, didn't feel like standing and frankly I am just over it.

[jencat215]

Kelly-I would ask your Dr. If he/she says it is okay to take in need, great. I did read that vicodin is not recommended for people with colitis issues.

[MissBish]

Dr. was the one that gave it. I just tried googling and can't find much. If anybody does..send it my way. Considering I was taking NSAIDS this whole time and that is terrible for colitis/proctitis.

Anyway...good night. Going to Marshfield tomorrow to try to enjoy the ocean.

[hopeful2bmom]

Hey Kel-
Sorry, I meant I was walking to the fire station to have the car seat installed. My ex husband is a firefighter and i thought maybe he could do it but I can't find his number. I live right around the corner from the station. I don't mean now at night

[parker john]

josee ... you are making me jealous with drinking any kind of wine i used to play that game in high school, that and quarters!

rach ... two things one i would totally have a talk with your hair dresser and let him know that you don't have too much time cause of aiden and that you want his full attention ... two ... your sil is a biotch ... i can't believe that she just assumes that she gets everything ... how rude is that ... i would totally have a word with her!

jen ... the m/s comes and goes ... it's really weird but i have several symptoms but never the same on any given day ... like one day, it's just m/s, then next it's extreme tiredness and the next day my boob kill!

kelly ... how are you feeling sweetie ... you have every right to be a little biotchy these days considering all the meds you are on! have fun at marshfield today (it's raining here )

shawna ... sweetie ... back away from the piac! it's way too early and i don't want you to get discouraged because you are going to get your bfp!

shelly ... how sweet is that ... happy anniversary mama! enjoy every minute ... and I feel the same way about our cyber family!

alana ... honey ... you have to rest ... and don't feel guilty about it ... i rest all the time and i am not even 9 weeks yet!

susan ... are you going to the firestation today ... you need to get ready for Phoebe!

heidi ... how are you doing? any plans for you, dh and stella this weekend? that is too cute that stella was playing games in the bath tub!

devan ... how are your feet ... mine were pretty bad yesterday from all the heat and humidity ...

amy ... when is your trip to vegas ... i am jealous ... i am on my vegas couch right now ... i won a ton 5 years ago and we bought a sectional sleeper couch and i call it our vegas couch!

ok ... getting hungry but not sure what i want ... mabye popovers for breakfast

[sunny72]

Rach, that situation with the SIL would drive me nuts. Maybe if you go you could raise the subject of "hey maybe next time you guys bring the additional pack n' play and I'll bring an additional highchair!" ?? Have you decided to go yet?

Tia, what are popovers, they sound good. We don't have real plans for the weekend. DH always works weekends, so it's just me and the pea. We'll go for lots of walking adventures. Have to remember to take lots of drinks with us.

[sunny72]

Oh and AF decided to arrive sort of so I'll call it in as CD1, but.. she's being sporadic and weird again. Why does she do this when I'm relying on her to act normal. They say bright red flow, but what if it's minimal but bright red?

[parker john]

Originally Posted by sunny72

Rach, that situation with the SIL would drive me nuts. Maybe if you go you could raise the subject of "hey maybe next time you guys bring the additional pack n' play and I'll bring an additional highchair!" ?? Have you decided to go yet?

Tia, what are popovers, they sound good. We don't have real plans for the weekend. DH always works weekends, so it's just me and the pea. We'll go for lots of walking adventures. Have to remember to take lots of drinks with us.

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[parker john]

Originally Posted by sunny72

Oh and AF decided to arrive sort of so I'll call it in as CD1, but.. she's being sporadic and weird again. Why does she do this when I'm relying on her to act normal. They say bright red flow, but what if it's minimal but bright red?

i was always told that no matter what color ... any flow was cycle day one

[ara79]

good morning girls!

yum, those popovers look delish!

susan...aren't you on bedrest??? can you have your mom or dh worry about the carseat?

heidi, have fun on your walking adventures!

rach, your SIL makes me want to vomit in my mouth. and FOUR clients at once? no thanks.

tia, we leave for vegas on sunday august 3rd. how cool...a vegas couch! i need one of those!

devan, how are you holding up over there? feeling ok?

hey shelly! how is baby d? i think it's time for more pics!!

kelly, have fun today! i am sorry that you are going through all of this. we're all here for you.

dh and i had a blast lastnight. we went to have dinner at a place called sullivan's w/ a group of friends. we sat in the lounge (smoke free...yay!!) and after dinner the most fun jazz band played. chris was so sweet and we had the best time. when they sang "my girl" he asked me to dance even though hardly anyone was dancing yet. too cute. then he said to me that i'm gonna have to share that song w/ lily...i don't mind at all. our friends took some pics of us and they are so cute. i'll try and post later.

[MamaSoon]

Heidi, you are such a cutie. And great advice. And I was always told full flow is Day one... Call your RE. They are paid to listen to details about the color of our periods.

Rachael, I think Heidi has great advice about what to do about SIL! I wouldn't let some biotch get in the way of me spending time with my family. I don't care how selfish she is. These are days you'll never get back with your siblings and parents and so stupid goat shouldn't ruin that. However, if I showed up alone, I would definately go up to brother in question and ask him to unpack your car and set up some of the things. I would ask all sweetly saying, "Hey, I brought the X, Y, Z in case we needed another set and it looks like you guys are using it. In that case, can you please help me unload and set up mine? DH isn't here and I could use the help Brother." But that is just my style... I hope they have more than one toddler bed over there. If not, I'd be looking for one in a garage sale or craigslist to get up there and paint A-I-D-E-N on it! LOL! She isn't worth your energy, Rach. She sounds like a energy sponge. She'll take take take everything and leave you raw and angry. Forcefield UP!

[MamaSoon]

Amy, awwwwww. that is like a scene out of a movie. Hold on to that MAN! I want pics.

Kelly, I hope it is just a matter of days before you can reduce the predn again... stupid stuff.

HA! Tia! A vegas couch. So funny. Post a picture of said vegas couch with your doggie on it.

[ara79]

"forcefield up!" - i love it. well said josee. rach, she is right. you have to say or do something now before it gets out of hand and she learns she can behave this way forever. people can form ugly habits when they are allowed...teach her now that you aren't going to stand for her acting like that. she may be one of those selfish and clueless people and someone just needs to bring all of this to her attention.

[ara79]

rach, forgot to ask: what does your other SIL, the one you love, say/think? does she have the same problems? maybe you all (all 3 of you) could go in together to purchase an extra set of baby things to leave at the farm.