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02-28-2008, 10:20 AM
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I forgot to mention...
After we lost our boys I read the book Empty Cradle, Broken Hearts. It helped us, it may do the same for you. It is for people who have lost an infant at any stage in pregnancy or soon after birth. Also writing has helped deal with some emotions.
These are just some thoughts that maybe will help you with what you are feeling because it is so overwelming and your brain needs to catch up with what is happening to your body (as my therapist says...). xoxo Cat
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Me-PCOS DH-low count, low motility, morphology (may be due to childhood illness and possibly some damage due to hernia at age 2)  Taz (cat) Daisy (dog) both rescuedTTC naturally for 2 years #1 IVF with ICSI  Aug.-Sept. 2007 cycle  Pregnant with TWINS! Dec. 29, 2007-Emergency cerclage-dialated 4 cent. Jan. 7-Jan. 8, 2008-Lost our sweet boys at 20 weeks due to weak cervix Lucas  Brandt March 3-hemmorging, resident left 2 huge pieces of placenta in for 2 months-caused infection, massive blood loss, 3 day hospital stay...do not know how much more I can take... 
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02-28-2008, 04:06 PM
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I'm so sorry for your loss. A loss is a loss, they all really suck! Beyond words. I'm so sorry. It does seem like a chemical pregnancy, what you describe is what I went through. My heart breaks for you!
 I don't think you should make an rash decisions on trying again though. I'm so sorry!!
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~Shawna~ Me: 26(Borderline PCOS) DH: 25 (slight MF) TTC: Oct/04 IVF: -10 fertilized, 6 Ice Babies -July 14th Transfer of two beautiful little guys. : Boo yah!!! July 21st for sure...it's getting darker!God please stay with us and this miracle. Beta: July 27-341 July 29-680 First u/s aug 18-IT'S TWINS! Baby A (Monkey) and Baby B (Boo) both with Heart rates around 160 bpm. 10w2d u/s- Sept 8: Looking good 10w6d-spotting scare 11w6d- NT scan shows 2 beautiful growing babies Gender and Anatomy: Nov 20th Mommy's intuition was right: TWO HEALTHY BOYS!! Angel babies:  Bean lost 12/11/06 at 8 weeks EDD July 23/07 Peanut lost 6/8/07 at 4 1/2 weeks EDD Feb 11/08 Little Ray lost 03/13/08 Ectopic at 6w5d EDD Oct31/08 
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03-13-2008, 02:39 PM
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I'm so sorry for your loss Rachel. No matter where in the pregnancy it happens, it is still incredibly difficult to go through. I wish everyone who has gone through IVF could have a success in the end. I hope you get to experience that one day.
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