[jenifardh]

i have done two ivf transfers and i got three positive pregnancy test from the doctor i went in last week for a 6 week ultrasound but the only thing they saw was the sack. i have all the syptoms of pregnancy i am nauseated all day long i am tired often and hungry often too i go in next week for another ultrasound i am praying everyday that they see a heartbeat and a baby in the sack this time but anixtey is really kicking in i want to know if this pregnancy is real or not becasue it feels like it but with all the meds for ivf you can never tell i just wish i knew right now
well i went to the docotr on yesterday for an ultrasound there was nothing in the sack i am so sad i don't know what to do or how to feel the hardest part is i have to wait for three weeks to see if my baby passes on its own or if i have to have a D&C.

[mnm000]

I am so sorry to hear about your loss, and what you are currently going through. It IS real, and you have to allow yourself to grieve. I hope you find the strength to carry on. Have you spoken with your doctor about your options? If waiting for 3 weeks is too much torment, you do have other options than just waiting to see what happens?
You will be in my thoughts during this difficult time.

[lovingwife]

I'm so sorry you are going through this. I am wondering why your doctor is making you wait 3 weeks for a miscarriage. Is he sure the pregnancy is not viable? If it is not viable, you might want to ask if you can have the D&C if you don't want to wait for it to happen naturally. That seems like a long time to be in limbo. Please keep us posted. I've had a D&C so please pm me if you have any questions.

[Jacklyn]

I'm really sorry to hear this. I hope God gives you strength to face this. We're here for you.
Take care.

[ara79]

i am so sorry hun.

[elizwhite]

I am so sorry for your loss. Someone told me the other day that since our bodies have been exposed to so many different drugs, hormones, treatment, etc., it is too hard to gauge symptoms. I have not had any morning sickness or many other classic pregnancy symptoms. Your body has gone through the ringer. PIO is the worst. Once that is out of your system, I think you will feel much better physically. I send you lot of and good wishes. Take care!

[jenifardh]

well i miscarried from 5 pm monday night until about 5 am tuesday morning this was the worst pain i ever had in life i tried to just let it pass naturally at home but i started getting really nauseated and dizzy i went to the emergency room at 2 am but luckily i did because i have rh negative blood and i had to have a rhogum shot after the baby passed. I really miss my little baby growing in my stomach but i know my baby is with god and when he is ready for me to have another baby he will i will think and dream about my baby everyday but i won't get mad at anyone because i still have so much love in my heart thank you for all my your prayers i go back to the doctor tommorrow hopefully everything is okay i still have pain and i am really stiff but i am okay . i still have five embryos ready for transfer. i think i may wait a month or two before i start again but good luck to everyone goning through this right now becasue it is an emotional rollacoster

[chantalTTC]

I'm so, so sorry to hear about your loss. You sound like you have a good attitude about it given the circumstances...you will survive this and you'll be stronger for it in the end. Just think of how loved and cherished your little one(s) will be when they come to you! Take care and take time to heal...

[MarisaD]

I'm sorry your having to go through this. My thoughts are with you.