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05-08-2008, 10:09 AM
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May God bless you and DH again. Please take all the time needed to heal from this devastating news. You are in our prayers, I am so sorry for your loss.
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Danielle Me (32) Removal of both tubes (hydrosalpinx) DH (35) Great Swimmers! Struggling with infertility for 7yrs 10/07 1st IVF Cycle/ 13 eggs,13 fertilized, 2 blasts transferred, 2 frozen 6 day frosties 11/08/07 1st IVF  12/11/07 Lap procedure (Removed Tubes) 2/8/2008 Trigger Shot 12 Good Follies 2/10/2008 Egg Retrieval 12 retrieved (10 Mature) (7 fertilized) 2/15/2008 ET (2) Five Day Blasts with AH 4 six day frosties left from cycle 1 & 2     1st Beta 274!  2nd Beta 2/29th-688 3rd Beta 3/3-2,213 One Bean & beautiful heartbeat 102bpm 2nd ultrasound 3/19th heartbeat 143bpm 3rd ultrasound 3/27th measuring 8.5 weeks HB-165 1st OB appt- 8:00 4/4th 4/21st- OB appt heard heartbeat! 5/19th- 16 week OB u/s, baby a week ahead! 7/14- OB appt 2nd attempt at gender u/s EDD- November 3rd, 2008 IT's A GIRL!!!! Mckenzie Renee McKenzie born on Nov 1,2008 7lbs4oz  http://dherbert123.blogspot.com/ 
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05-08-2008, 10:20 AM
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I'm so very sorry to hear of your loss. You and your dh are in my prayers. I hope you find peace soon... Take care of yourself.
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Kristen Me 35/DH 40 TTC 4 yrs DH dx - 6% morphology & 29% DNA Fragmentation in sperm My dx - low egg quality/FSH 12 on Day 10 6 months clomid, 1 IUI: BFNs #1 IVF Fresh May '06: anembryonic preg/blighted ovum #2 IVF Fresh Oct '06: chem preg #3 IVF FET Dec '06: BFN #4 IVF Fresh Jan '07: BFN #5 IVF Donor Egg Cycle Donor ER Feb 17 - 15 eggs, 14 mature, 10 fertilized through ICSI ET Feb 22 - Day 5 transferred 1 blast - froze 4 blasts 1st beta 13dpER = 181 2nd beta 15dpER = 474 www.babybeat.com - love my doppler! IT'S A GIRL!!! Due Date: November 8 Delivered: October 25 at 7:45pm, 7lb11oz, 19in Linnea Mae Simon is here! 
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05-08-2008, 10:24 AM
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Oh Tam, my heart breaks for you. I'm so sorry for your loss. To answer your question it will stop hurting as much over time but the pain never goes away, the memories never go away. I was released from the hospital after the birth of my son one year to the day from when I lost my first pregnancy and it was a rough day for me. While I was and am thrilled to have my son my heart still yearns for the child I never had a chance to know. Take the time you need to grieve, yes there will be many days/nights, weeks and months of tears but you'll find in due time that each day gets just a little easier as you carry on the way that baby would have wanted you to. All my love!
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Jen - 26 hypothyroidism DH - 27 (low count, low motility, morphology) TTC since December 2002 3 failed IUIs, 1 failed IVF TTC Naturally in 2007 (Fertility Blend)  March 2007 - ectopic July 07-March 08 Ethan Matthew Edens born 3/17/08 via c-section6:07 p.m. 8 lbs 7.5 ouncs 21 inches TTC #2 in 2009 http://www.myspace.com/jene6102 http://www.totsites.com/tot/ethan31708 Ethan and the tickle monster http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AIUirxoqzeI With God ALL things are possible!  
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05-08-2008, 10:33 AM
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Tam, I am so sorry for your loss. Please know that my dh and I will be praying for you and Bob to have healing and peace. I wish I could give you a big hug.
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 Janice Me: 32 DH: 38, obs azoo Charlie (golden) Buster (lab) Henry (Bassett) IVF #1 (Duramed Study) 5/3 ET put back 2 blasts, 1 grade 3AA and the other grade 2AB 5/4 froze 1 blast totsicle 5/11 Beta #1 8dp5dt = 35 , 5/13 Beta #2 10dp5dt= 71.5, 5/18 Beta #3 15dp5dt= 561 U/S 5/29 1 little bean hb113, 5.2mm, U/S #2 6/9 hb169, 16.5mm 7w4d, U/S #3 6/13 hb182, 21mm 8w5d
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05-08-2008, 10:48 AM
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Hello
Tam,
take the time to grieve it hurts like heck most of us on here know, there are not really any words anyone can say that could interpret how you.... are feeling, just know we all grieve in our own way, and we are here for you and DH. Neta for you
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05-08-2008, 11:16 AM
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Oh Honey, I am so sorry to hear of you loss! Yes in time the pain will lessen but never truly go away..... there is a part of you that will always think back on it and be so sad, but in time it will get better.
I agree with th support group idea, I did that and I also went to see a counselor and that helped so so so much. I went alone no DH and just talked about my feelings, my losses and pain. I also did a dedication page to one of my losses knowing it was a girl we had named and I go to that page every once in a while and look at it. She was not old enough to have a burial so this is like my burial plot for her and now, years later it brings me peace. Do not rush through the pain, take it as it comes and let it run it's course! You need to know we all here for you! hugs and prayers
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Meredith  36 me 35 DH ttc 3/03 5/04 mc 12 wks 11/04 mc 9 wks 6/05 mc 16 wks 4/06 mc 11 wks 10/29/07 BFP 11/1/07 dr apt 1 formed sac 11/29 30 mil lovonox injection twice daily 01/11/08 it's a BOY!!!! Jason Logan May 29th 2008 Hospitalized with baby stopped growing 3 weeks before ( IGFR Inuero Growth Fetal Retardation he stropped growing but is not mentally un-sound) June 2, 2008 HE IS HERE!!! 4 weeks early and perfectly beautiful!  http://www.myspace.com/mad4472 http://thedawesinseattle.blogspot.com/
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05-08-2008, 11:44 AM
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oh no Tami! I am so sorry. Sending an extra big hug to both you and DABob
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 Me: 35 MTHFR hetero, no other issues DH: 33 Perfect Etienne  , Jake , Sam (cats) Maggie (iguana)TTC #1: 2 yrs 2 m/c (Aug '06 and Jan '07), 1 ectopic pg (lost left tube) 5 IUI's 5/27: beta #1: 716!!!! (17dpo) Natural cycle!5/29: beta #2: 1885!!!! 6/1: early u/s-1 sac/yolk 6/9: u/s#2-saw and heard hb! 114 bpm. Measuring 6w2d 6/17: u/s #3- hb 154 bpm. Measuring 7w3d 7/1: u/s #4- hb 161 bpm. Measuring 9w4d 7/9: first OB appt.-u/s #5- hb 152 bpm. Measuring 10w4d 7/17-NT scan-everything looks great! Measuring 11w6d 8/14-quad screen (quick gender check): IT'S A BOY!!! 9/4- Level II u/s. Baby is doing great! Measuring 5 days ahead.   check out my website! www.glassphusions.wordpress.com
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05-08-2008, 01:02 PM
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Tam/ Bob i am sorry. I will PM you..
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 BARBARA me 42 -dor dh 42 -perfect 3 dd-24y,15y,10y 1 ds -2y our little angel, Joeyits his strength that keeps me going -SIDS-/SUDC Starting IVF#1 w/ICSI w AH 6/25..... AF.....finally came 7/23 - ER 7/27 - ET 4 8/04 - faint line am --pm digital 8/05 Beta 33 (day early) 8/07 Beta #2 - 92.5 prog 15.6 8/13 Beta #3 - 1058. prog. 30.6/Est. 596 8/16 - bleeding - stopped8/17 u/s -1 sac- 2 grains of rice 8/20 Beta u/s - IDENTICAL TWINS. OMG BETA - 15K 8/29 -u/s -2 hbs 9/2 - check levels 9/9- 1st interview with ob & check level w/ RE NO More PIO shots.... 9/30- OB 10/07- Peri appt. nt scan 10/21 - OB 11/6 - Peri - amino 11/18 - OB 12/5 - Peri - level 11 scan 12/15- OB THANK YOU LORD FOR YOUR SPECIAL DOUBLE BLESSING.  http://bd.lilypie.com/CqT3m4.png
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05-08-2008, 01:58 PM
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I am so sorry for your loss. You and your Dh are in my prayers. The pain does get better, it never goes away and you will never forget. Not a day goes by when I don't think about my precious little boy. Not a day goes by when I don't cry for him. But I know that one day that day will come and I will be able to think about him with joy that he was here and not sorrow that he is gone. If you want to talk I am here for you.
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Teresa About me: Me: 25 PCOS DH: 29 Perfect TTC: 5 1/2 years 3 rounds clomid, didn't respond to medication 1 successful IUI w gonalf 4-4-08 Blake Quigley was born and passed  New RE Avandia 4 mg and femara 5 mg CD 5-9 9/11 AF Started 9/15 Femara 5mg cycle canceled no response 10/06 Femara 7.5mg 10/30 follicle scan 2 at 22mm and 20mm 10/31 IUI 26mil. 96%motility 11/13 beta #1 103.6 (13dpiui) 11/15 beta #2 240 (15dpiui) 12/1 US #1 
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05-08-2008, 02:16 PM
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Tami - I am so so sorry. My heart is breaking for you and Bob. It won't be this hard forever, but as others have said, it will stay with you forever in some way. But you need to let yourself grieve. This is a devastating time, and you should make sure that you take care of yourself and let yourself feel everything you're feeling. I'm thinking of you. -B
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 Our Team: me: 40 with unexplained infertility dp (dear partner): 46 ttc 2 years donors (yes, 2) - both fabulous 4/06 - very 1st IUI - BFP ; m/c and d&c at 8 wks 10/06 - 3rd IUI - BFP - but chemical and lost at 5+ weeks 6 more IUIs - BFN all 8/07 Surgery to remove ovarian cyst 10/07 1st IVF - BFP; ectopic - d&c and methotrexate  3/08 IVF with donated eggs 3/31 - ! beta 95; 4/2 - beta 267  ; 4/7 - beta 2073!!!4/8 - early u/s - a perfect little dot in its perfect little spot! 4/15 - bleeding scare, but saw the bean measuring perfectly and beating its wee heart! 5/2 - u/s - all's well and hb at 175 7/9 - anatomy scan - all's fabulous! 
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05-08-2008, 03:03 PM
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tami i saw your post in the other section ... i cant express how much my heart breaks for you and bob .... i will keep all of you in my prayers.
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 ME ~29~ HEALTHY DH~38~LOW COUNT, MOTILITY DS~6YRO TTC~ 4YRs SIRM GIRL!!!! MARCH/APRIL IVF LUPRON/DEXA 3/12 MENUPOR/FOLISTIM 3/24 TRIGGER SHOT~4/1 ER~4/3~24 EGGS FERT REPORT 20 MATURE. 20 ICSI , 20 FERT ET~4/9~2 BEAUTIFUL BLAST BETA~4/18~ 63.1 beta 4/21~352 beta#3~4/23~872 beta#4~4/24~1603doubled less then 24hru/s 4/29 one perfect lil bean 11/27 lost my plug started contractions but weres my baby!!!! http://jerseyjandj.blogspot.com/   
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05-08-2008, 07:03 PM
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Oh honey I'm so sorry. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
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 DH: 29 Beautiful daughter born 4-23-03 TTC since Feb 2005 - didn't ovulate Started treatment Aug 2006 6 rounds of clomid tubes are open bloodwork is good 3 rounds of femara/follistim/HCG 2 IUIs 6 months of acupuncture Moving on to infant domestic adoption! Officially waiting to be matched!! -- June '08
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05-08-2008, 08:09 PM
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I'm so sorry for your loss.
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Me - 35, DH - 32 No.1 took 3 years and 2 failed IUI's: Conceived naturally - born: 08-17-04 TTC No.2 - Since '05 HSG 1/5/07 - tubes clear but clubbed SA: 1/10/07 - DH: 92% poor morp 1st IVF- April '07 - trial study, BFP-missed miscarriage - 6/29 - D&C 1st FET, Oct '07 - BFN 2nd IVF, Feb '08 - trial study BFN 2nd FET April '08 - BFN 3rd IVF (Not trial study) ER: 08/26, ET: 08 31 08 09/07 POAS: BFP !!! Beta 1: 09 /11 = 201, prog 43 Beta 2: 09/15 = 1214, prog 42+ Beta 3: 09/22 = 9347, prog 35 1st u/s: 1 bean, 116 bpm measuring 6w4 days, prog 47 2nd u/s: 8w2d: 166 bpm (saw small gestational bleed) 3rd u/s: 10/28: 162 bpm measuring 11w2d (small bleed still) 1st OB visit: Hearbeat in the 160s. All good bar low placenta NT Scan: 11/12: baby waved. 2nd OB visit 12/04: 148 bpm, all good Gender Scan: 12/17: 
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05-08-2008, 08:50 PM
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Tam,
I am so very very sorry for your loss. Please take care.
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ME: 41 DH: 43, somewhat low morphology TTC 3 1/2 years (began seeing RE 02/07) August 10, 2004 BFP naturally January 17, 2005 Our angel arrived at 26 weeks. She was with us for 3 precious days. December 2006 BFP naturally January 2007 MC 5 wks March 07 Clomid 50 mg 5-9, timed BD BFN Apr - June 07 IUIs 1-#3 (Clomid 50, 5-9; prog supp) BFN August 07 IUI #4 (Clomid 50, 5-9; prog supp) BFN 09-07-07 IUI#5 w/HCG trigger, U/S 3 good follies on right, possibly 1 already released on left (clomid 5-9) 11-03 IUI #6 no meds BFN 3-14-08 IUI #7 Bravelle & HCG trigger (4 good follies; all between 20-24) 12dpo BETA 33 BFP14dpo BETA 66 19dpo BETA 611, prog 48 MC 7 weeks 6 days
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05-08-2008, 09:34 PM
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Tami, I'm so deeply sorry for you and DH. Like the other ladies have said, the pain will lessen in time. Give yourself all the time you need to grieve and don't be afraid to lean on the people who love you. You both are in my prayers.
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Me (Jenny): 27 - PCOS, hypothyroid DH (James): 29 - Slightly low morphology TTC 3+ years; 1st year and a half wasted with a worthless doctor 2007 2 failed Clomid cycles Ectopic pregnancy 2008 3/5 - new cycle - Clomid and Follistim 3/31 - positive hpt 4/2 - 1st beta - 48.5! Estrogen 324, Progesterone 35.9 4/4 - 2nd beta - 113.8! 4/7 - 3rd beta - 487!! 4/11 - 4th beta - 2987 4/16 - 1st u/s - 1 beautiful healthy peanut in exactly the right place! 4/23 - 2nd u/s - everything still great. Saw and heard the heartbeat! 122bpm! 5/6 - 3rd u/s- Absolutely amazing. Measuring 8w6d, 172bpm; released to OB 6/4 - Everything is still perfect. Measuring right on track, hb 161bpm 6/26 - Couldn't be better; 148bpm 7/21 - Anatomy Scan!! It's a GIRL! 11/26 - Kathryn Lakhari Ann born at 38w1d due to pre-eclampsia! 8lb 4oz, 20 1/2" long   "The prize is always worth the rocky ride."
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