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05-13-2008, 07:33 PM
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I am hating life....
Well last Wednesday we found at our 8 week u/s that there was no longer a heartbeat. I am so devastated. This is the 2nd time in 10 months. I am so worried I will never be pregnant again, much less carry a baby to term. Anyone out there had success with FET? That will be our next step.
Lynda
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Me - 37 DH -42 Low sperm count DD 8 Trying for #2... First IUI Aug 06 with Clomid Failed Second IUI May 07 Failed Third IUI June(first with Injectables) SUCCESSFUL but had miscarriage at 9 weeks Fourth IUI Oct. 12th & 13th! Doing Injectables again!Failed IUI #4 Starting Oct.27th   IVF #1 March 08 Follistim 300 Menopur 2 and 5 Lupron Estimated ER 3/24  ER 3/27 17 Eggs  14 Mature, 12 FertilizedET 4/1 2 Blasts 1 A+, 1A 4/9  Beta 224/11 Beta 118 4/14 Beta 566 4/25 Fetal Pole Seen! 5/5 Heartbeat 5/7 Heard Hearbeat 5/9 D&C no heartbeat CD1 8/25 September 16th FET 2 blasts, A & B grades Digital HPT Beta 9/29 hcg 306 Beta 10/1 hcg 704 Beta 10/3 hcg 1689 U/S 10/15 1 Bean Heartrate 129 7 Weeks exactly U/S 10/17 1 Bean, Heartrate 138 7w2d  U/S 10/20 1 Heartrate 159 7w4d Exit U/S from RE 10/21 Baby meausres 12w5d  
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05-13-2008, 08:02 PM
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I never was able to make it far enough to have a FET, but I did want to tell you how sorry I am you are going through this and wish you luck on your FET.
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 Misti 27/ had stage 2 endometriosis/PCOS DH 29/ Great ttc 5 years  2 furbabies Both Bassett Hounds Lloyd and Daisy 7 double IUI's used mixtures of Clomid and Gonal IVF#1 Started Lupron 5/21 6/16 29 follies!!! 6/17 moved up target date!!!!from 6/19 13 eggs 6/20 ET only 1 to transfer!!!  7/2 BETA 12/11 Saw new RE Went on low amylose diet 2nd lap stage 3 endo! 6/12 BETA Starting Embryo Adoption process
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05-13-2008, 08:09 PM
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Theres definitely hope for sure
Im so sorry to hear this has happened to you. Its such a dissapointment- Im sorry it happened again. Its not your fault and sometimes it cant be explained. But the embyo wasnt developing for some reason. Remember these guys are in the business to get you pregnant and you have to believe-when its your time you will get pregnant again and it will be a success.
And Yes-my girlfriend (40) is pregnant now due this July with child #2. 1st child was ER/ET IVF #2, this one is IVF#3/1st FET. Dont give up hope. Try adding some changes to your early pregnancy diet/routine and also dont forget stress reducers. It will happen and stick. You can get pregnant-you know that. God takes these kids early for whatever reason-but keep the faith and it will happen. Good luck and dont forget to take some time for yourself before you begin again.  Wishing you all the best.CC
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Me:39 DH:53 Still Rookie until IVF success! DH 14ys post vasc RE recommended IVF 1st IVF: ER:04-25,ET 04-28 7 follicles 4 eggs 2 fertilized/implanted Duramed Study Prog: Crinone 8% betaHCG: 05/09/08:  2nd IVF: attempt..antag protocol Stims started 07/10 IVF cycle cancl'd poor response to stims 2nd stims cycle attempt for 2nd IVF start stims 8/29 microdose lupron protocol IVF cycle cancl'd poor response to stims 3rd stims for 2nd IVF Lupron protocol started 09/19 2nd IVF: ER:10-11,ET 10-14 12 follicles 7 eggs 6 fertilized/put back 4  1 stopped dividing, froze 1 Beta #1 10-27 
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05-13-2008, 10:50 PM
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I'm so sorry for your loss.
 Have the doctors given you any insight into why this is happening?
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Me (Rebekah) - 37 (estrogen dominance, LPD) DH - 38 (significant MFI)  Reminder to self: This discomfort is fleeting, but kids are forever! IVF#1 - BFP, but m/c at 6w5d FET#1 -- Natural cycle (low meds) ET - 6/27 - Transferred 2 (6A, 4A) -HPT on 7/7 Beta #1 - 7/7 - (10dp3dt) #114! Beta #2 - 7/9 - (12dp3dt) #272 Beta #3 - 7/17 - (20dp3dt) #5993 First U/S - 7/24 - 1 perfect bean - & 1 tiny one Second U/S - 8/12 - TWO perfect beans! OMG! NT scan - 9/4 - Two bouncing perfect babies! Fraternal twins! Anatomy scan - 10/7 - TWO BOYS! Both looked excellent. Amnio results perfect! 11/13 - Fetal echocardiogram normal 11/20 - Put on 'lots of rest' regimen 12/4 - 1 hr GTT EDD - March 17, 2009 
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05-14-2008, 01:23 PM
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I am soo sorry for you loss. I am going through the same. Ours stopped at 8wks but found out at 9. If you need to talk and share, I am here. Will be going thru FET also and have questions out to the RE. I am willing to share any info I get.
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 Female-33--PCOS  Hubby--36-test failureUsing known Donor(takes a nice pic) Patches &Tiger (cats)CURRENTLY: 11/14--2nd anatomy scan& baby fluid is normal again will keep track of it. ITS A GIRL!!!! 7/10--transferred the three musketeers. (1-6bb & 2-3aa) dollar store hpt +, digital= pregnant!!! on to beta....7/18-beta #1 55  7/21 Beta #136 p4-39.2Beta#3 (7/25--815!) 7/30 (beta 4924)8/15--2 BEANS 7wk4d actual 7wk5d.baby A 156hb,B 154hb. (8/21--93584 baby A hb177 baby B-none  )EDD March 29,2008   God Please Bless our babies..... HISTORICALLY: 10-12-07--2 IUI's--no $ so onto IVF In April 2008-------5/08/08--lost my angel for good William Benjamin --trisomy 16
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05-14-2008, 01:29 PM
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Sorry to hear of your loss. I wish you all the best in your journey.
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Me 34 - PCOS DH 39 - Ct(110 ml), but still mot and morp issues  TTC 4 years 2 year wait to see RE than RE takes 5 months off! 10/07-6/08- 6 rounds Clomid all = BFN RE May 08 = waiting for DH appt. at clinic to see if his sperm will survive the wash and respond properly to “fallopian tube environment” – July 08 Passed! 5/08 Testing for Lymphoma- Negative!!! I just have Sarcoidosis. 6/08 Can’t get follow up appointment with RE until September--Am considering moving to the third world, than will not be surprised at inadequate health care. 8/08 Hysteroscopy and Lap removed polyp from uterus and adhesions to ovary and fallopian tubes, adhesions not previously diagnosed. 1st IUI 9/08-BFN 2nd IUI 10/08BFN On to IVF 3 dogs & 3 cats  
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05-14-2008, 04:29 PM
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I am sorry for your loss as well. The same thing happened to me in the fall... We had seen the heartbeat twice, then right before I was graduating to OB, I miscarried.
We're all here for you during this difficult time. Take time to heal--physically and emotionally. Let us know what you need, and we will support you. CQ/Leigh
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Me: 37, wombtacular DH: 40, spermatically challenged TTC 4 years 2 years on our own 2 years with RE 3 IVFs, 3 TESEs, 1 FET, 1 m/c, and a DD that made it all worth it!  IVF #4: IVF/ICSI/TESE 8/5 -- anatomy scan; HB 149; weight 7 oz. We have a healthy tot! And no, we didn't peek at the gender--it's a surprise! 10/7 -- passed glucose screening! / HB 150 / measuring 1 week ahead / now taking daily iron supp. 11/17 -- HB 150s / measuring right on schedule / baby is vertex! 
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05-20-2008, 12:49 PM
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Lynda C
I am so sorry to hear of your loss. It can be very hard to go through that. I also had a MC. I was 13 wks. I was on a cruise with my husband and daughter. I MC on Valentines Day on a cruise and had a DNC in the Miami hospital, then they through me out, Like the didnt care cause I was in a stranger city and didnt know any of the drs.I was mortified. That was 4 yrs agao and I still have problems dealing with it. I even knew the sex of the baby, My Re told me. Anyway you will get through this, just keep thinking there had to some underlining meaning why you werent meant to Pg now. I hated when people told me that I got pissed everytime, because I said they dont know what I am going through so they can say that. Hang in there and keep trying. Natasha
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Me-33:Endo,IR,Hypothy,issues w/pituitary gland(my prolactin) DH-48:Lo Counts & Lo Motility Married 4/98 1999-Endo w/Lapo 1999-2001:TTC Mar 01:1st IUI Apr 01:2nd IUI Jan 13th 02:Healthy Baby girl born via C/s Sept 2003:2nd Lapo for Endo Nov 03:1st IUI Feb 14th 04:MC @ 13wks w/ DNC July 04:1st IUI Aug 04:2nd IUI Sept 2004:Brake Oct 2004:Brake Nov 2004:3rd IUI Brake Dec 04-Dec 07 Jan 2008 Going again.On Plaquenil,Ultra Cal,Vitamins & Synthroid May 2008: 1st IUI June 2008: 2nd IUI 6/6-IUI-9mil 78% motility 6/7-IUI-4mil 68% " 6/18-beta- 166/20-beta-52 6/23-beta 257 p4-89 6/30-beta 4240 p4-59 6/30-US-5w1d maybe a ges sac 7/3-US-5w4d ges sac. no fetal pole yet. 7/11-US-6w5d -hearbeat 100, measuring at 6w3d-lrg yolk sac. 7/18-US-No Hearbeat-no growth- D&C scheduled for 7/22
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