[jusmaryt]

hello, a short history... been ttc for 4yrs, lost lft tube in 2005 due to tumor. 3 iui's 1 failed ivf in 2006, ectopic in 2007 lost rt tube, cancelled ivf in 2008 advised that i was in ovarian failure. i am upset that some people seem to think that they are taking my feelings in consideration when we talk about kids and how they have problems and such... or when women have children that are handicap. The first thing out of their mouth is "I know you dont have any kids but...." I want to think that it is not personal but after a while it starts to wear thin. I guess I am a little senitive. but just wanted to get it off of my chest. thanks for listening. mary

[mimosa72]

Hey Mary,

I hear you. It's all horrible in different ways. My friend just came back to work from maternity leave. She was telling me how everyone was telling her that she would be crying to go home by the end of the day. She knows my situation!!!! And the fact that I am in 2ww.

I'm going through phases where I am tired of being sensitive, and I'm not for a while, and then BOOM. Ten things will happen in a day that just make me want to go home and boo hoo.

I try to remember how much time I have wasted this year being sad. And how much life I didn't live while being sad. Trying to make myself just be happy and thankful for what I have.

Best wishes to you!!!