[YaYa]

ITS SEEMS AS THE YEARS GO BY ONE BY ONE MY FRIENDS GET AND YOU WANT TO KNOW THE SAD PART, THE NUMBER ONE THING I ALWAYS HEAR AFTER THEY TELL ME IS "IM SORRY" "OR "I DIDNT WANT TO TELL YOU BECAUSE......" MAYBE ITS JUST ME BUT THAT JUST SEEMS TO MAKE THINGS WORSE IM SO READY TO BE THE ONE THAT SAYS GUESS WHAT IM !!!!!!!!!!! I PRAY ONE DAY IT WILL HAPPEN. IM SORRY IM JUST VENTING BECAUSE MY HUSBAND JUST DOESNT UNDERSTAND!!!!!!!!

[sunshineshimmers]

I know how you feel....keep your head up, your time is coming!!
hugs and prayers,

[msnoonoo]

Vent away! We all have gone through this. I am the last of my circle of college buddies to not have kids. Keep your head up and one day you will get your miracle.

[sunshine]

I think it's extremely hard for our friends and family to understand what we are going through. That's why this forum is so great...we all get it. Unfortunately, we have to be around those lucky girls who get pg so easily. Everytime I turn around a family member or co-worker is announcing their good news and while I am truly happy for them, it's getting harder and harder to keep it together. For the most part I am patient, but when I hear of another pg girl I feel like time is running out and I have to make something happen NOW. Infertility just plain SUCKS, but I also know in my heart that we will all be moms (and not just to our fur babies) someday.

[Dakotabluebaby]

I know its hard. and it SUCKS!!!!!!

My best friend who wasn't supportive of us trying this year had an Opps. I just clapped my hands and congratulated her...but haven't made any effort to see her since(its only been a few weeks.)
I'm angry. I'm Sad. I'm frustrated.
BUT
I must belive God has a plan. I know when I do have children I will cherish them in a way no mother could unless she fought to have them. IF is a different world, I didn't choose to be part of, but there is strength here, and beauty.

So be angry. Its ok.

[Francine1977]

I know exactly what you mean, This week alone my cousin called and told me she was , then just yestaurday i found out that my best friends gf is

It has been a rough week, i just keep that my time will come. It can be very , some people just don't understand.

[becky928]

O...how i understand you completly.... I just found out yesterday that one of our friends is pregnant....and so now we are offically the last couple out of all our friends who have not had a baby... i cry everyday, and just like you said...no one really knows what we are feeling or going through, its not there fault.... but i wish so bad to become .

[alg76]

we too are going through the same thing and while I am extremely happy for our friends/family that are expecting, I am very hurt as well, sometimes people just don't think about what they are saying. I have a friend(who was not very healthy before the pregnancy) that is expecting and the first time I saw her after they made the announcement all she did was complain about how much weight she had already gained!!!! I would gladly add extra pounds, sore boobs, etc. if it meant all our dreams were coming true!!!!!

[Deb72]

I know exactly how you feel. My next door neighbor and good friend just had a baby. My co-worker just had a baby (yesterday). I have...let's see...7 other PG friends right now - and about 10 that already have toddlers. I am just waiting for my DH's cousin to tell us she is preg - any day now. I have a PG friend that is pissed at me because I haven't wanted to hang out with her throughout her pregnancy. I have sent her 100s of articles to read so that she can understand it's not HER that I am avoiding. She does not listen, she does not read what I send her, she is just so angry with me. And it makes it worse.

So just know that you are not alone - we all understand. And this is the perfect place to vent!

[MTLadyBug]

Hello! Okay, here is my story. DH and I TTC for 1 year. I was on the patch for about 3yrs, birth control since 15 (now 27). No period for 1 yr. Doc says body is slow to start producing hormones again. Estrogen was low, but now is in the normal range. I have had ultrasound, MRI, lots of blood work! I am starting Clomid this month, ultrasound scheduled for 5/20. Anyone else have problems simply from being on the pill so long?

I know what you mean about "everyone but me." I cry everytime someone says they are pregnant and seeing my nephews, no matter how much I adore them, can be SO hard some days!

[dtbamom]

Hi All,
I am new to this forum. I have been ttc for the past 4 years. People all around me are getting pg. while i am unable to. I have tried 2 IUI's and in vain. For the last 1 year i and my dh are undergoing homeopathy medical treatment, yet no results. I am worried as i am getting aged and that concerns my conceiving ability. I am always stressed and go into depression. I cry as much as i can and try to get over it @ that time, but then seeing somebody pg or hearing some pg news triggers it all over again. Currently i am devastated and depressed a lot.
Is there any hope for us?

(Note: In our case my DH has some count and motility probs. please direct me to the right forum)

[USCgrad]

Girl, I hear you! It's so frustrating when everyone around you is pregnant and they started trying WAY after! I ended up having a disagreement with a friend because I didn't "respond" the way that she hoped I would when she told me that she was pregnant. WELL EXCUSE ME for not jumping up and down in excitement. Apparently congratulating her and holding my own tears wasn't enough for her. VENT AWAY!!! That's what we're here for!

[USCgrad]

I have gone through the same thing. I was completely depressed, I started having panic attacks and everything. I did 3 things for myself:
#1 I started therapy.
#2 I started acupuncture
#3 I started seeing a Reproductive Endocrinologist to get some answers.

STILL WAITING to get pregnant but at least I feel like I'm doing something to help myself.

[Maggiesmom]

I can totally understand what you are talking about, i too am having the same dilema with my DH and all the people around us getting pregnant. It's sometimes really hard to smile when it hurts on the inside

[maxie03]

Hey, I completely understand...no one around you gets it so who are you supposed to turn to when you are having a bad day...the dog? The doggie can only help so much. And vent away, this is the only place I can vent. Everyone here is so supportive. Your turn will come...I have hearing it, but it has to be true right? Best of luck!