[malar]

Hi All,

I am new to this forum. happy to share my feelings with people with whom i can relate to..

one of my closest friends.. she knows my whole history of ttc for past 2 yrs with no success..no need to mention she gave birth to a baby a week ago and yet to inform me!!!! does she think am a bad luck for her to even know that she gave birth.. and that am jealous of her.. whats wrong with people???
IT TRULY HURTS!!

[Danilstewart]

I hear you!!! My closest frined of 15 yrs refused to tell me she was PG even thou she had an obvious bump. When I flat out asked her she replied "are you sure you want to know??" What did she think when she popped out a baby I wouldn't realize!!! I think it is guilt. They feel guilty that they have what we can't and feel bad cause this baby becomes their whole life, well that is what my two best friends told me before they decided that if was to hard to be friends with an infertile woman as they didn't understant what I was going thru and I couldn't understand how it was to be a mum!! You are not alone! That is why it is so great to have the people here to talk to. I wish you luck with your friend and happiness to brighten your day. You deserve someone who can stand with you.
take care.

Dani

[malar]

thnx dani for replying... its been long time since i loggd in hence the delay..

thanks again.. to you