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09-08-2009, 02:21 AM
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No babies = no more us
Well I've been married 7 years with infertility problems. Our last unsuccessful attempt was ivf #1. My marriage is at its end since my husbands over the top obessions with babies has drove me insane and really depressed. I have grown sick and tired of hearing maybe this wasn't meant to be and I had this feeling all along by him. I feel used by this man, that I poured my love and soul into. I don't think he's the right guy for me and I am truly blessed to have him out of my life. I am ready to move on at the age of 27. I am just letting u ladies know because babies are not the foundation of happy relationships and marriages. Two people who love each other should live their lifetime together and if a baby comes then oh yeah more joy. But regardless a true man will love u with or without a baby. I am done obessing over babies because my heart has been in pain for so long and I am done crying for this baby and this man. Good luck ladies.
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ME: 26 - irregular periods DH: 26 - LSP TTC: 7 years 2003-2005 Tried naturally, no babies. 2006-2007 Found out he has LSP. He uses clomid. 2008 Testing for me, HSG then small surgery. Some bloodwork= abnormal prolactin levels. 2009 IUI #1 1/5 GONAL injections for 15 days. 1/27 Estradol=Good & Ultrasound 3 Follicles 14, 12.5, 12 1/31 IUI 2/12 12DPO  AF  IVF #1 5/25 Begin Lupron for 10 days 6/4 Start Gonal 225u 6/5 AF-Heavy flow. 6/7 Continue Lupron. Decrease Gonal to 150u. 6/13 9 Follicles: 14,13,16,17,16,13,15,20,17 6/14 HCG shot 6/16 ER a go--- 9 eggs retrieved! Ouch. 6/18 ET - 2 embroys 6/30 Beta #1 IVF #2 7/22 RE Consult on IVF #1 failure and procedure for IVF #2 8/1 Begin IVF again? 
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09-10-2009, 08:14 AM
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Good Luck to you! On a side note if your having issues before babies you will still have issues after a baby, good for you for moving on!
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Kelly:31 Ryan:32 SD:13  Beamer and Ernie TTC 3.5 years 8 IUI's done all natural, on Clomid and Repronex all My First IVF!!  ER 4/2 14 follies, 11 fertilized ET 4/5 Transferred 2 grade 1 follies/eggs? None to freeze. 4/16 blood test  , beta 1524/18 (12 days post ET) beta 332! 4/20 (14 " " ") beta 757!! Grow babies Grow! 4/30 1st U/S  TWINS! One boy and one girl! Owen and Olivia! EDD 12/24  Babies 10/25/07 9 weeks early by emergency c-section due to Preeclampsia
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09-10-2009, 08:16 AM
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I am sorry to hear that you are going through this but by the sounds of it you have made a good choice....
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Karlene 2 daughters from previous Tubal Ligation 1999 Remarried 2005 1st IVF february 16- ET  transferred 2 blatosysts 3bb and 3bb february 25 BETA  IVF #2 April 9 - start BCP's April 17 - sono and biopsy April 17 - start Suprefact April 27 - suppression check - good! April 28 - start Gonal F and Repronex May 4 - growth check May 10 - retrieval - 15 eggs!  May 11 - 14 fertilized normally May 12 - still have all 14 ranging from 2-5 cell May 15 - ET - transferred 2 beautiful blasts 4 to freeze!! May 25 -#1 BETA 176  May 27 - #2 BETA 434 May 28 - pink spotting May 29 - #3 BETA 1399 June 1 - #4 BET-3683 June 16 - 1st u/s - saw one healthy bean, strong 160 hb July 8 - first OB/GYN - measuring perfectly Sept 11 - it's a BOY!!!! DUE DATE JANUARY 31, 2010
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10-07-2009, 01:44 PM
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Well Said!!
Yes, a baby should not the foundation of marriage. I am thankful for my husband. He tells me that if I can't get pregnant that doesn't make half a woman, and that yes he would love for me to get pregnant but if I can't we can always adopt, besides he said" I married you because I love you not because I just wanted a child" Ladies if your man keep nagging you or makes you feel bad because you can't get pregnant that man is not good for you, so get the hell out!!!
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10-08-2009, 07:40 PM
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Somewhat in the same boat...
Well, I am somewhat in the same boat as you, only differently. I am sitting here and I feel like my heart is literally breaking....2 weeks before doing IVF #1 I have decided to not go through with it and to divorce my husband. I have waited and prayed 10 loooong years for the ability to do IVF. I have all the medicine sitting on the table in front of me, the contract with the check to send to the shared risk program I was accepted in to, and I have decided tonight to NOT go through with it. This decision is not only the most difficult decision I have ever made, it is also the most un-selfish (I hope). I feel as if someone is standing in front of me with a check for a billion dollars and I am turning it down. I know in my heart that I won't spend the rest of my life with my husband so I can't put an innnocent baby through living with a broken family. We have been separated off and on for two years, and have been together again for the past 9 months. I've battled with Stage IV endometriosis for 10 years, tried many attempts at IUI, Super-OV and had one miscarriage. I am 38 yrs old and feel this was my last chance at having a baby. I just realized I am babbling here and have made no point at all....sorry!!!! I just had to write something, somewhere to express what I am feeling. Sorry for the book, I wish you the very best on your decision.
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10-09-2009, 11:01 AM
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Man man man they are so insentive!!!
Well, I am sorry to hear that some husbands are just acting like jerks!!! Sometimes is better to get out of a relationship that is not stable enough, so if you know that your marriage is not in good shape. Then why would you want to bring a baby to this worl in an household like that? I agree with: behappy.
I like your point of view, and I agree with you 100%.
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10-09-2009, 07:10 PM
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:-)
Thanks Linethlabella
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