[CLK]

Hi everyone,

We found out on Monday that our 1st cycle failed. (used a donor egg)

We were both really shocked, sad and I think I cried for 2 days.

We're going to try again using FET hopefully soon.

For the past 3 days my DH has been snappy, grumpy, cold and extremely distant. --Then he'll text or email how much he loves me.

I understand he's feeling the same feelings I am, but I'm not sure if I should make him talk about his feelings, or let it be until he comes around...

I hurts, but I'm trying not to let it show.

Any advice?

[Rob&Irina]

it's his way of dealing with the situation... i wouldn't push for a conversation, but make sure that he knows that if/when he is ready to talk, you are going to be there for him...

good luck...

and remember: this too shall pass... and it's not you, it's him

[CLK]

thank you.... it's getting better already.