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Old 03-21-2007, 10:17 AM
rduke rduke is offline
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Hello- my name is Rebecca and have stumbled upon this site, hopefully it will offer me some type of avenue to try to get through this. We have been ttc for two years. In July I had a routine laproscopy...nothing found. In November we started IUIs with clomid. Three tries later...nothing. Then it was on to the big IVF. And I just found out Monday it was unsuccessful. I am devastated to say the least. Throughout the process everything went great. A good number retreived two strong embryos transferred back. Great numbers on all blood work. I can't seem to wrap my head around it. I am at a complete loss. It is hard to find people who can understand the pain and sadness I feel right now. I feel hopeless and I am not sure what do to next. for the past 2 years our lives have been about ttc, and now it is over. Thanks for listening!!
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Old 03-21-2007, 01:25 PM
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Hi Rebecca! Welcome and take it from me, you'll really like it here. I've only been here a few days and already feel like part of a 'family'. I've never felt so understood in any other infertility forum.

I'm so sorry to hear that your IVF did not work. I know how devistating that must be. Please know that no matter how alone you feel, you always can talk to me or any of the girls on here. I feel like my spirit has been uplifted since joining. It's so hard to go through all this alone and when you find a group that you mesh with, it's great.
Good luck with whatever you decide to do ttc-wise. Please keep us updated!
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DH (MATT) (31)

TTC for 16 months prior to Diagnostics:
*DH varicocele surgery 10/01 & 01/02*
*HSG & B/W check out fine
baby #1
*01/22/02 - IUI #2 - 300,000 BFP!!! It's a !!! Allison Leigh
baby #2
*03/30/04 - IUI #2 - 5.1 m/ml BFP!!! It's a !!! Thomas Donovan

TTC baby #3 since 4/06
dh's counts improved, now considered "unexplained"

Cycles 1-10: unmed/clomid cycles
05/06 - 09/06 ~ 4 unmed IUIs ~
09/06 - 02/07 ~ 6 clomid IUIs ~
Cycle 11: 1st inj med cycle
03/30/07
Cycle 12: 2nd inj med cycle
04/23/07
On a break
New RE Appointment with Dr. Ahlering 5/30
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Old 03-21-2007, 01:48 PM
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I am so sorry Rebecca but you have some to the right place....





Okay, so I have had 3 failed transfers..and I too feel your pain...its just so hard to understand. I am not sure what will be next for us, but I know that no matter what I will never give up wanting or my quest to have a baby. I will say that it is completely exhausting...do they know what your diagnosis is?
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Old 03-21-2007, 02:00 PM
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I'm SOO glad that you have found us!! IF can be a VERY frustrating journey and we all understand your frustrations. I hope that things get better for you soon!!
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TTC -9 years
Appt with RE on 12-12-06
Ovary function test - normal
12-28-06 - waiting to hear my RE for next step
1-11-07 - Next RE appt to discuss options
Going to do IUI with Gonal F
IUI scheduled for 1-26-07
Beta 2-6-07 -
RE appt - 2-9-06- b/w & u/s
2-9-07 found cyst..off this month
3-12-07 - started back on injections
3-23-07- 2nd IUI
4-4-07 Beta--
4-5-07--round 3-
4-16-07 3rd IUI
Beta 4-28-07
4-27-07-

Lucy (mix dog) best dog EVER!!

Trying the good ole fashion way!!
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Old 03-21-2007, 03:19 PM
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Welcome!! Glad you found us!! This site is a great place to open up. We all can relete to the pain and frustration of IF. You are not alone.

Stay strong and lean on us if you need to.



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TTC 6 years for #1
Me- 31 PCOS (metformin) & blood disorder
DH- 31 My Perfect Super Hero with morphology issues
choc lab! german shepherd!
4months Cycles Clomid-failed
13 cycles IUI w/injections- failed
6 cycles with surrogate- failed
2 years- natural -failed
*New RE*
Anticardiolipin syndrome30mg Heparin injection daily.

IUI #14
10/3 back to back IUI's with donor and DH sperm
BFP! TWINS!!





I am getting ready to start my annual Holiday fundraiser looking for a few volunteers. Any takers....Together we can make a difference.

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Old 03-21-2007, 03:47 PM
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Rebecca!!

You have come to the right place for support and friendship. I know for myself, this is more of a sisterhood with some brothers for me.

I am so sorry to hear of your recent BFN. We are here for you.
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17 year old DD
Chapter 1
12/30/06 Process begun
1/14/07 diag w/PCOS
2/2/07 Start Met 1000mg.
2/2/07 op. hysteroscopy - Remvd 4 polyps
2/21/07 PCP -insulin-resistant
5/9/07 Met 1500mg
7/20/07 Met 2000mg
*LH(like husband) & I seperated. One Chapter of my life-Closed.
Chapter 2 - THE JOURNEY for MY BABY!
6/2/08 - 1st Consult 4 my new Journey.
NEW PLAN
Begin Pre-Natal Vit.; Mke appt with Psy
6/18 HSG - lft tube still blocked 2 large polyps
6/20 Op Hysteroscopy- Remvd 4 polyps AGAIN!
ROAD BLOCK: Endometrial Biopsy done 8/19
8/16 Day 3 sono & Labs
9/2 Cancer free!
FINALLY GIVEN OK TO START CYCLE!!
Find & select DS
Dec or Jan cycle: Day 3 sono; begin clomid; day 12 Follicular Sono
Nothing gets me off this plan!!!


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