[rduke]

Hello- my name is Rebecca and have stumbled upon this site, hopefully it will offer me some type of avenue to try to get through this. We have been ttc for two years. In July I had a routine laproscopy...nothing found. In November we started IUIs with clomid. Three tries later...nothing. Then it was on to the big IVF. And I just found out Monday it was unsuccessful. I am devastated to say the least. Throughout the process everything went great. A good number retreived two strong embryos transferred back. Great numbers on all blood work. I can't seem to wrap my head around it. I am at a complete loss. It is hard to find people who can understand the pain and sadness I feel right now. I feel hopeless and I am not sure what do to next. for the past 2 years our lives have been about ttc, and now it is over. Thanks for listening!!

[mcat1298]

Hi Rebecca! Welcome and take it from me, you'll really like it here. I've only been here a few days and already feel like part of a 'family'. I've never felt so understood in any other infertility forum.

I'm so sorry to hear that your IVF did not work. I know how devistating that must be. Please know that no matter how alone you feel, you always can talk to me or any of the girls on here. I feel like my spirit has been uplifted since joining. It's so hard to go through all this alone and when you find a group that you mesh with, it's great.
Good luck with whatever you decide to do ttc-wise. Please keep us updated!

[jf5505]

I am so sorry Rebecca but you have some to the right place....





Okay, so I have had 3 failed transfers..and I too feel your pain...its just so hard to understand. I am not sure what will be next for us, but I know that no matter what I will never give up wanting or my quest to have a baby. I will say that it is completely exhausting...do they know what your diagnosis is?

[KarryB]

I'm SOO glad that you have found us!! IF can be a VERY frustrating journey and we all understand your frustrations. I hope that things get better for you soon!!

[MIRANDA12503]

Welcome!! Glad you found us!! This site is a great place to open up. We all can relete to the pain and frustration of IF. You are not alone.

Stay strong and lean on us if you need to.



Miranda

[KuddleyGal]

Rebecca!!

You have come to the right place for support and friendship. I know for myself, this is more of a sisterhood with some brothers for me.

I am so sorry to hear of your recent BFN. We are here for you.