[CParker110]

Hey everyone, my fiance and I have been trying to get pregnant for a few months now but I have had fertility problems as long as i can remember. I am alergic to the pill so was never on birth control. After having unprotected sex for 7 or 8 years its pretty obvoius there is a problem. I am going to see a specialist this month and dont yet know what the problem is.
My question to you all is how do you deal with the emotional part of it? It really messes with my head...I get so upset that there are so many women out there that have no problems and can conceive when they dont even want to and I cant. My fiance has a son and I get so upset that his ex was able to give him a child (unplanned and unexpected) and I cant. How do you keep that from consuming you and tearing you up? I try so hard to stay positive but sometimes it is so hard and I dont want to burden my fiance with it all. Any suggestions or help would really be appreciated!!