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Old 12-06-2008, 06:23 PM
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I'm so sorry for your loss. I can't imagine your pain and anguish.
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No.1 took 3 years/ 2 failed IUI's:
DD born: 08-17-04

TTC No.2 - Since '05
HSG 1/5/07 - tubes clear but clubbed
SA: 1/10/07 - DH: 92% poor morp

1st IVF- April '07 - trial study, BFP-missed miscarriage - 6/29 - D&C
1st FET, Oct '07 - BFN
2nd IVF, Feb '08 - trial study BFN
2nd FET April '08 - BFN
3rd IVF (Not trial study) BFP
1st OB visit: HB in the 160s. SCH & low placenta
Gender Scan: 12/17: It's a BOY! Everything looks great.

Isaac born: 05 15 2009 @ 4:02AM, 9lb 3oz, 20 inches long
1 month checkup: 11 lb 4 oz, 22 inches
2 month checkup: 14 lb 4 oz 24 inches
4 months checkup: 17 lb 8 oz 26 inches


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Old 12-06-2008, 06:27 PM
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Hi Sweetie

Sorry for your loss, I hope you and DH precious heats will mend over time and this void you 2 r feeling will 1 day be filled... prayers to you both n ur families
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DH- 36 low morph- DS-16
IVF with ICSI journey began Dec 07
Antagonist protocal,
Feb08 32 eggs retrieved, 28 fertilized
2 5d blast transferred, 4 snowbabies.
Mar08, devstating results.
Back in the game for FET. Meds started
ET May08 2 5d blast. 2 snow babies left
poas or sediment?
#1 HCG 120 Yay.
#2 HCG 520 YOOHOO.
Pain in side? Could it be an Ectopic,.
Yay 6/18/08 not a ectopic, THANK U GOD FOR THIS WODERFUL OPPURTUNITY.
#1 U/S 2 beans, only 1 heartbeat seen , come on beanie baby you can do it.
#2 U/S 6/25.

#2 Lil butterscotch has HB of 158.

lil beanie, didn't make it collapsed sac no HB.

Still have 1 beautiful bean "little butterscotch".. HB 158.
Genetic counselling went excellent no issues.... and IT IS A GIRL!!!!!!!!!

Thank you Lord for still trusting us with 1 of your children.


Zi'El Katricia Pra'mease Walker Has Arrived!!!!!

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Old 12-06-2008, 06:31 PM
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I am sorry to hear about your profound loss...

I frequent a blog called Busted Babymaker: Busted Babymaker

The writer lost her twins at 23 weeks. She has several links to support groups/information about stillbirth.

I wish you strength and peace as you move forward.


CQ/Leigh
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DD: 3 going on 30!


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2 beautiful daughters!

1/19 -- Baby Annelise born at 41w1d / 7 lbs. 11 oz.
3/20 -- 2-month check-up: 13 lbs. / 13 oz. & 23.75"! My big girl!
5/29 -- 4-month check-up: 19 lbs. even! & 26.5" / Somebody loves her mama's milk!
7/31 -- 6-month check-up: 21 lbs. / 4 oz. & 27.25" / she's now officially off of the growth chart! We love our big girl!
10/23 -- 9 months already?!?!?! 22 lbs. / 14 oz. & 28.75"

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Old 12-06-2008, 06:39 PM
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Your stiry is so sad that I cried while reading it, I can only imagine the pain you are going through. My thoughts are with you during this time...Please take the much needed time you need however long it is to heal...and know that you will have great support on this site!
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Beamer and Ernie
TTC 3.5 years
8 IUI's done all natural, on Clomid and Repronex all

My First IVF!!
ER 4/2 14 follies, 11 fertilized
ET 4/5 Transferred 2 grade 1 follies/eggs? None to freeze.
4/16 blood test , beta 152
4/18 (12 days post ET) beta 332!
4/20 (14 " " ") beta 757!! Grow babies Grow!
4/30 1st U/S TWINS!
One boy and one girl! Owen and Olivia!
EDD 12/24
Babies 10/25/07 9 weeks early by emergency c-section due to Preeclampsia

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Old 12-06-2008, 06:40 PM
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Halle

Thank you both for your very sweet posts. I will definitely check out that website.
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Old 12-06-2008, 06:57 PM
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Natalie it helps to know it does get easier. Right now I feel so overwhelmed by my grief that I feel like I'm going to lose my mind.
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Old 12-06-2008, 06:58 PM
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im so sorry for your loss. we are here for you and your family.
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Old 12-06-2008, 06:59 PM
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I am so sorry for your loss. Know that you have a support system here as we are all here for you.
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DH- 43 low morphology
DD - 7 ( my first love)
- CoCo dd's Chow Chow

04/27 Started Stims
05/11 Retrieval ( IVF W/ ICSI)
05/14 Transfered 3 embryos
05/26 Beta #1 17.9
05/28 Beta # 2 55
05/30 Beta # 3 237
06/03 Beta #4 2200
06/05 Beta #5 2970
06/07 Beta # 6 4400
1rst U/S One sac measuring at 5w3d
large questionable area
06/14 2nd U/S measuring 6w4d with heartbeat in 120's
06/22 3rd U/S measuring 7w6d with heartbeat at 176
06/27 4th U/S measuring 8w 3d with heartbeat at 175.
07/05 5th U/S Hb at 155, baby moving around
07/12 6th U/S HB in the 150s
07/19 NT Test----Fine
08/30 It's a Boy
10/11 - Diagnosed with Vasa Previa with velamentous insertion of the umbilical cord. Ordered on complete bed rest.
11/23- Jayden arrives at 7:36pm...at 30 weeks and 1 day gestational

1/22/2009 Total Hysterectomy- will be cheering on everyone else.

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Old 12-06-2008, 07:05 PM
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Wow, your post took my breath away. I am so sorry As far as the saying, everything happens for a reason and other sayings ~ all I can say is that a few years ago I was faced with something terrible and I asked the doctor why?? Despite all the good doing, why? ~ and he said quite simply "sometimes bad things happen to good people"

I wish you all the best for the future. I think you will find strength where you never thought you had it
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Me: 41 LOR/POF
DH: 40 perfect
Furbabies: Newton Sparky (lovable, spoiled cats)
Dec 22/07 - ET of 3, 5 day blasts
Jan 3 - #1 BETA 2542
Jan 5 - #2 BETA 7033
Jan 17 - 1st U/S 6w2d - TRIPLETS, 3 heatbeats
Feb 5 - Nutritionist - I am now a protein eating, baby making machine.

Aug 9 2008
35 weeks 4 days
Tyler - 5lbs 4oz
Connor - 4lbs 15oz
Luke - 3lbs 14oz





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Old 12-06-2008, 07:12 PM
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I'm so sorry...I lost my son Nov. 16 at six days old. The pain is unbelievable. Hugs from one bereaved mother to another....
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TTC: Oct/2003

Oct. 10 2003
M/C Oct. 31

Feb 4 2004
M/C Feb 28

August 28 2004
M/C Sept. 17

Jan. 11 2005
March 5 Heartbeat!!!
May 19 20 weeks...
August 23 2005...36 weeks
Placental abruption/emergency c-section...Thank you God!!! Baby got out safely!!!
It's a girl!!! Daughter Lorelei is born...

March 28 2007
May 24 no heartbeat
D&C May 29
Pathology indicates Turner Syndrome

February 28 2008 start Clomid
April 4
April 10 BHCG 8600
May 11 U/S....TWINS!!!
May 30 Nuchal Translucency..so far so good.
July 15 Fetal Anatomy U/S Twin A- A girl/ healthy!!! Twin B-A boy w/congenital heart defect

Nov. 10 2008...ruptured membranes, Georgia Leigh 7lbs 10 oz and Calvin Zachary 6lbs 14 oz are born!!!
Nov. 16 2008...Calvin passes away due to complications from open heart surgery...God rest my angel.
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Old 12-06-2008, 07:36 PM
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My thoughts and prayers are with you. I'm so sorry.
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DH: 28, low levels, varicocelectomy 4/25/07!
11/06: LAP, HYS, myoectomy, caut. of endo, D&C
12/06: IUI cancelled - over-response
1/07-3/07 3 IUIs, all BFN
5/9: start IUI #4
5/21: IUI converted to IVF
5/23: ER ~21 follies! 14 ICSI, 10 fertilized, 9 at d3, only 2 left at d5
5/28: ET - 2 blasts, grade C (not good)
6/6: BETA #1: 21
6/8: BETA #2: 61 P4: 44.1
6/12: BETA #3: 419! P4: 54.3
6:22: u/s #1: saw the hb! 85bpm
6/29: u/s #2: heard hb! 112 bpm, yes!
7/13: u/s #3: hb...175!! Yeah! measuring perfect. Thank God!
7/19: 1st OB appt ~ a-okay!
8/3: 1st real OB appt ~ heard hb! All is well!
8/31: again, a strong h/b!
9/25: IT'S A BOY!
EDD: 2/13/08
ROWAN JOHN arrives 2/15/08, 7 lbs, 14 oz!
2/20 7lbs, 13oz 20.5 in
2/27 8lbs, 12 oz
4/16 13lbs, 1oz, 23 in
6/16 15lbs 10oz, 25 in
8/15 17 lbs, 11 lbs, 27 in
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Old 12-06-2008, 08:09 PM
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My heart breaks for you and the loss of your precious baby girl. Please know your in my thoughts and prayers. It's just not fair.
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Old 12-06-2008, 08:15 PM
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Hi Sweetie

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Natalie it helps to know it does get easier. Right now I feel so overwhelmed by my grief that I feel like I'm going to lose my mind.
Anytime you need to reach out we are all here. Bunnis said it right from 1 grieved mom 2 another, love ya both.
Neta
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Me-40 scarred tubes/ r tube, ovary removal
DH- 36 low morph- DS-16
IVF with ICSI journey began Dec 07
Antagonist protocal,
Feb08 32 eggs retrieved, 28 fertilized
2 5d blast transferred, 4 snowbabies.
Mar08, devstating results.
Back in the game for FET. Meds started
ET May08 2 5d blast. 2 snow babies left
poas or sediment?
#1 HCG 120 Yay.
#2 HCG 520 YOOHOO.
Pain in side? Could it be an Ectopic,.
Yay 6/18/08 not a ectopic, THANK U GOD FOR THIS WODERFUL OPPURTUNITY.
#1 U/S 2 beans, only 1 heartbeat seen , come on beanie baby you can do it.
#2 U/S 6/25.

#2 Lil butterscotch has HB of 158.

lil beanie, didn't make it collapsed sac no HB.

Still have 1 beautiful bean "little butterscotch".. HB 158.
Genetic counselling went excellent no issues.... and IT IS A GIRL!!!!!!!!!

Thank you Lord for still trusting us with 1 of your children.


Zi'El Katricia Pra'mease Walker Has Arrived!!!!!

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Old 12-06-2008, 09:05 PM
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I was so sad reading your post. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. We lost our son one year ago and the pain does not go away. I thought it would get easier but it hasn't for me. Please know that we are all here for you and one another.
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DH - 28 - Perfect
TTC #1 since 2003
Aug. 2006 - IVF #1
May 2007 - IVF #2
Ocotber 30, 2007 Lost baby boy at 22 wks. due to Incomp. Cervix
May 2008 - IVF #3 Lost pregnancy at 7 weeks
September 2008 - IVF#4
IVF #5 - Feb. 2009
BETA #1 - 98
BETA #2 - 250 Thank you God!!!!
Cerclage - May 4th
Baby Girl was born on Oct. 28th, 2009!!!

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Old 12-06-2008, 10:31 PM
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I am so sorry for your loss!! My heart aches for you and dh..... take your time to grieve, only time will heal. Take care.
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DS - 3, DSS - 6

TTC #1
2/2005 - mc, 7.5 wks , 4/2005-clomid, metformin - 12/2005, DS (37 wks)

TTC #2 (12/2006)
2/2007-11/2007, 6/2008 - multiple IUIs (follistim, ovidrel, metformin), all
12/2007 - IVF (bcp, follistim 450, lupron, HCG, metformin) converted to IUI, over-suppressed by bcp, only 4 follies
12/2007 - conceived naturally on break cycle , mc, 6.5 weeks
7/2008-first complete IVF (micro-dose lupron, low dose HCG, follistim 450, HCG, metformin) 9 eggs, 3 fert. w/AH
8/30/2008-2nd IVF, same protocol, 9 eggs, 3 fert. w/AH, 3dt
10dp3dt-beta 30 ; 13dp3dt-beta 103; 16dp3dt -beta 567
9/29/-first u/s-hb - 114 bpm; 10/3 -10/13 - hbs: 125, 134, 143 - but sac is measuring small
10/25 - : 10/31 d&c: triploidy
1/2009 - 3rd IVF (estrogen priming), using estrogren priming, est. ER-2/4 (9 eggs, 3 fert. w/ICSI, 6 week wait for genetic screening results)
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