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Originally Posted by Cathi025

I am so sorry, you are going through this. I went through a simular thing 10 months ago with triplets, ultimately loosing all three. Please, when you feel better you can go to my triplet blog, it explains a lot of what I did to help the healing process. I also have been seeing a therapist since Jan. It has really helped. We are also expecting again. There have been a lot of emotions, I just wanted you to know that you will never get over this but you will be able to move past it and be happy again. Good luck to you and just know you are not alone...

Cathi025,
Thank you for sharing your story with me.I read most of your website and seen your beautiful babies. You and your husband are so strong and worthy. We share so much in common, I lost a total of three babies now also and the pain it endures on your heart is unexplainable. After reading your website it open up my eyes to letting me know that I can still use what I have left of them as a remembrance of our little ones. You are soooooooo strong and you have so much to offer, I am so glad that you have found peace in your heart to try again. Keep taking good care of yourself and your new baby girl.

[tomekwa]

I just wanted to say how so very sorry I am for your loss. I too lost our little angel and although I wasn't as far along as you were it still teared me apart.
I know the feeling of thinking that life isn't fair and all of that. I still struggle with those feeling from time to time.
I'm not sure why we have to go through this journey but here we are. I'm sure God knows that we're worthy and that we'll be parents one day.
Hang in there and don't be affraid to ask for help and come to us to vent.
I found (for myself) very helpful to write things down. I started a blog and I write about anything and everything that comes to my mind. It helps me a lot.
DH and I also just got matching tattoo to commemorate our union as a couple, parents and to celebrate our little angel.
I didn't do anything that would remind me of my loss but instead makes me think of how much closer it has brought DH and I.
I hope this pain that you feel right now can get easier soon. It won't happen right away but you'll get through this.
Sending lots of love your way.

[jkish34]

Your story was truely heartbreaking. I will for you and DH.