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I've been married 7 years and ttc has caused our marriage so much stress. When we first did our iui we got into a huge arguement, unrelated to our infertility. The arguement got so bad that he brang our infertility problem into the mix and wanted to cancel our iui. Of course I talked him into finishing the iui because it was unfinised business.

Then when that failed and we started our ivf process we got into another arguement unrelated to infertilty and yet again he was eager and persistent to cancel our ivf process. Yet again I have to convince him to finish what we started.

Its just been heart breaking and saddening to see him want to quit every arguement we get into. Sometimes I don't understand him because he wants a kid more then me but he's so quick to judge me and end our cycles.

I'm praying for our ivf to work but I'm not sure how to deal with him anymore if we fail yet again. Sometimes I wish he was just more sentimental and understanding of the **** I'm going through to make this work.