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trouble making small talk
Can anyone relate to this?
I'm finding that I'm having a hard time talking to others lately. The stress and strain of infertility and treatments over the past 3 years are just becoming too much to bear. Only a few close friends know what I'm going through (I definitely prefer it that way), but I find that whenever I'm around anyone, I can't even make simple small talk because the biggest thing on my mind is our fertility struggle, and if I can't talk about that then my mind is just blank. So along with everything else, now I feel like i'm someone with a lack of personality and no social skills. I think i might be going insane. |
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Welcome! I feel like this very often. IF is CONSTANTLY on my mind and sometimes I just don't have the energy to talk to anyone. It makes it very difficult to socialize. Just know that you are not alone, and this is a wonderful place to talk to others who completely understand you. Find forums where you feel comfortable posting and you will make new friends quickly! Glad you found us, and hang in there!
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- Liza ![]() Me: 36 (unexplained IF; mild endo, diabetes) DH: 33 (perfect) TTC since June 2006 PFJ!!! 5 IUI's Aug 2007 - Jan 2008 BFN 1st IVF cycle 2/08 = 3dt of 3 8-cell fresh embies BFN 2nd IVF cycle 4/08 = converted to IUI #6 (poor response) BFN 3rd IVF cycle 6/08 = converted again to IUI #7 & #8 on day of trigger (E2 dropped) BFN NEW RE (RMA of NJ): changing protocol and fixing hemoglobin a1c (9 to 5.6!! Soooo proud!) 4th IVF - microdose flare protocol 11/4 - 11/18 BCP's 11/22 - b/w & u/s - start microdose Lupron 20u pm 11/23 - start Follistim 225u am/pm & Lupron 20u am/pm b/w & u/s on 11/25, 27, 29, 30, 12/1, 2 (I live at the RE's office!) 12/1 - trigger! 12/3 - ER at 9am 12/6 - ET (please God!) Please God, bless us with our baby.
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Like the others said, we get it here on this site. I often feel the same way, especially when surrounded by my pregnant friends. It's really hard to talk about things that just don't seem that important anymore, with IF hanging over us.
Hang in there and post as much as you need to!
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TTC since 11/05 Me 31: right tube mostly and left tube completely blocked, random polyps that disappear on their own DH 33: on the low side, but good enough 4/07-11/07 - 5 rounds chlomid ![]() IVF #1 in July '08 7/5 start Lupron 7/9 baseline - 22 follicles 7/12 start stims 7/23 ER got 8 mature eggs - 7 fertilized! 7/26: 3dt of 2 "pretty good" embryos w/ fragmentation, 1 frozen blast left 8/6 Beta ![]() FET #1 in Aug/Sept '08 9/11 transferred 1 blast 9/20 + HPT and Beta #1 = 31 9/23 Beta #2 = 86 9/26 Beta #3 = 362 10/8 u/s at 6w5d, saw empty gestational sack measuring 5w1d 10/15 f/u u/s same results 10/20 D&C ![]() In the meantime, RJ, BP, propolis, CoQ-10 & a multi for me, C, E, & almonds for DH IVF #2 in Jan '09 start OPK's on CD11 Dec 5, start Lupron 8 days after LH surge aiming for ER during week of Jan 4 |
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