[maesmommy]

hi everyone. i am new to these forums and was referred by a fellow pregnancy loss mama. a few months ago i lost my little girl at exactly 20 weeks. the docs say ptl triggered by placental infection, but i was also being watched for ic, so it's not totally clear. we are grieving while also thinking about trying again. i would only try again if it was with a really good care provider who would watch me like a hawk, and if i felt really super informed. i did not have a good experience with the docs last time.

can anyone here suggest:
- good questions to ask a peri/MFM about my risks and preg management before i ttc again?
- or, a really caring, competent, skilled MFM/peri to work with on a pregnancy after a loss, who practices in the boston area?

i would be really grateful to find the right doctor as i really want to try again but am super scared of everything going wrong a second time. thanks, everybody.

[Tatanka]

I do not have any advice for you, but I am so sorry you lost your baby.

[bunniswife]

Glad to see you made it here from Glow....welcome. Ok ladies, we need to find a good RE in the Boston area. Any suggestions??? And I'm so sorry to hear of the loss of your baby. How devastating. If there is one wonderful thing about this forum, it's that there are numerous caring and supportive women here who will listen and can understand what you've gone through. Hugs