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Old 10-12-2009, 11:21 AM
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There Is Hope After a Miscarriage!

I've not posted for awhile but thought it was time since we shared with our family that we are expecting again and I am almost 12 weeks along in this new adventure. For 7 months after my miscarriage (at 10 weeks pregnant) I struggled with the fears that I would never conceive again or would have to wait a long time to conceive again. Finally I gave this burden of fear to the Lord Jesus Christ and was delivered. I became content with the state of life in which I found myself and determined to enjoy every moment to be with my only son as he is a fast growing toddler. I no longer battled against my life's stage but welcomed it as a blessing in disguise. This was not an easy stage to come to but with God's Help we can all reach it. My desire for another child was still there but I left that in God's Hands and in His time I would have a child. It didn't mean I didn't do anything at all, I did begin using natural progesterone cream and took some fish oil capsules.
Finally I did receive a 8 months after the miscarriage. Praise the Lord!
I'm posting this thread to be an encouragement. God is more than able. Pray that He will help us to be patient for His Will in our lives. If we don't we may often feel like we are . I pray this helps someone and would be happy to hear if it did. May God bless you all as you continue on in life!
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Me (22) - as far as I know fine...
DH (23) - He's wonderful!!
DS - Healthy and active; a real sweetheart. Conceived after being married 8 months and only ttc for 1 - month. Born 8-6-07

After ttc 1 month
10-08 -
12-19-08 miscarried naturally @aproximately 10 weeks pregnant after bleeding 2 1/2 days.

2 months later... began ttc... again...

8-21-09, 6 months after ttc... Praise the Lord! God answers prayer!

I can rest knowing that it is all in God's Hands! God is good, all the time!
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Old 11-12-2009, 07:53 PM
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There is life after miscarriage

I also wanted to post a word of encouragement for those who have lost....I had 3 miscarriages (unexplained) before I had my little girl, you just have to keep your eye on the prize : ) so to speak. I actually went to our local childrens hospital and volunteered at their NICU to keep me focused. It was so encouraging to be with those babies and I could touch and feel what I was missing. It made me realize what I was working for and that it was worth the pain of trying. You really have to remain paitent and focus. That is hard sometimes when you have extra hormones everywhere....I should know, I am now undergoing "replacement therapy" so that I can try to have another baby. It will probably be another long road (last time was 4 years) but I am very excited at the idea of another child in our lives! Stay strong and keep trying. If you are able to get pregnant, you have a chance : )
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Old 11-13-2009, 05:52 AM
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Thanks ladies. I hope that more will come back and post stories of their success after miscarriage. Right now I am struggling with working through all the emotions and physical pain of m/c, but i am looking forward to the future as well. I hope that I am a success story someday.
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3dt of 3 perfect looking embryos,
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FET #1 Mar '09 with AH
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Myomectomy June '09
Removed 10 fibroids. 9 inside uterus and 1 outside.

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ET 9/4 transfered 3 embabies.
HPT 9/15

#1 Beta 9/16 502
#2 Beta 9/18 1246
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Old 11-16-2009, 05:37 PM
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I can most definitely compare with the emotional roller coaster after a miscarriage mostly caused from hormonal imbalance. I battled this 6 months after my miscarriage (natural progesterone cream is supposed to help with this) God bless you both and I pray God will grant you with a healthy baby soon!
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Married 3-4-06
Me (22) - as far as I know fine...
DH (23) - He's wonderful!!
DS - Healthy and active; a real sweetheart. Conceived after being married 8 months and only ttc for 1 - month. Born 8-6-07

After ttc 1 month
10-08 -
12-19-08 miscarried naturally @aproximately 10 weeks pregnant after bleeding 2 1/2 days.

2 months later... began ttc... again...

8-21-09, 6 months after ttc... Praise the Lord! God answers prayer!

I can rest knowing that it is all in God's Hands! God is good, all the time!
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Old 11-17-2009, 02:42 AM
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Great post!
God is good, even when you can't understand the plan, he does have one.
We were so broken down last year with an MC from a FET in 8/08. We did a fresh cycle in Jan. and found out we were having twins. We lost them 2 months later. We decided to just be done because the heartbreak was sooooooo unbearable.
With a 5% chance of having a natural (sex) baby, we didn't use any thing and BAM one month later we were pregnant with twins AGAIN!
We couldn't believe it. Right now I am 31 weeks and I am still a bit in denial despite the HUGE BELLY!

I too hope this gives hope and remember the dispair I felt when I was in that 9 month period of 3 losses.
This is all God's doing, I was so angry with him and had to deal with the anger and now he's showing me he knows best and I believe him.
Keep the faith even when you are down.
Huge hugs to all that are looking forward after an MC ~ I know it's hard.
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*TIME FOR BETA SCARE
3/14: 1st BETA 77
3/16: 2nd BETA 105
3/19: 3rd BETA 155
3/23: 4th BETA 631
4/2: 1st US = 6 weeks 3 days; 1 Heartbeat/w/baby in sac (Oh what a feeling!)
8/10 ~ Hospitalized for Vasa Previa at 25 weeks for 3 months
DD born 3 weeks early @37wks.
www.vasaprevia.org/

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2 Embies on Ice ~ 1 grade 2, 1 grade 3
ET:7/24/08 BETA
7/31: POAS in AM, FAINT +
8/1: 1st Beta = 41
8/4: 2nd BETA =117
8/20: U/S @ 6 weeks 4 days (No HB)
8/25: U/S @ 7 weeks 2 days (No HB)
8/26: D&C

Jan. 2009 ~IVF #2
+ BETA
Twins
3/4/09 D&C

*Diagnosised with: Pregnancy related antiphospholipid antibody, Hasimoto's Disease

5/21/09 ~ + HPT
TWINS AGAIN NATURALLY (w/5% chance of natural pregnancy)
2 Identical BOYS (shared placenta)
Heprin 2x's a day (YUCK)
EED: 1/21/10
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