[vivianirene]

I am so sorry to hear about the loss of your son. I wish you all the best of luck with your treatment. God bless you!

[hms3]

verm26, just wondering how your tcc efforts are going?

I can totally relate to how scared you are. I lost my twin boys almost five months ago. My period is due any day now and we plan to try this upcoming cycle. We kind of tried last cycle (didn't avoid pregnancy) but it didn't work. Part of me is relieved because I too am very scared, but another part of me is frustrated that it didn't happen.

Hope you are doing well. Hang in there...

[Naila]

Dear all.... well it just breaks my heart after reading all this. we lost our baby daughter 4 months back on May 3 2007 at 25 weeks... she was perfect just born a little too soon..... doctor found nothing wrong with her or me.... and asked us to try after 3 months just so tht my body gets rest and healing..... not a day goes by without crying... we have ttc in september ... nothing has happened so far but i to concieve by year end....

[marilynn]

Naila my heart goes out to you and the other women. I wish you all the baby(ies) you deserve and want so dearly.

I lost a baby girl when I had just started my last trimester. It's unbelievably hard as you know. The fact that all of you are in there trying again just shows how strong you are.

I'll say a prayer for you all.

[blessings]

Hi Verm26,

I am very sorry for your loss. I just want to reach out and send you a hug I lost my twins at 22.5 weeks in late August. I hope you are finding comfort and support in this community. It healped me greatly. I recently(yesterday) became an active member after months of just reading posts. I am very much in the healing stage. Each day brings hope, Keep the faith.

Isabella

[Caricias623]

Originally Posted by happycook

Hi- I'm also new to this forum (haven't set up a signature yet). We lost our triplets - Avery, Oliver, and Thomas almost 3 months ago at 21w6d due to IC & PTL. They were absolutely perfect - just born too soon. That was our first pregnancy thanks to just 1 cycle of Clomid. After 2 AFs, we're trying again, and I did 100mg CD4-8 Clomid last week. This Friday (CD14) I'll have an US to see how many follicles are mature and hopefully get an HCG injection to release the egg(s). Trying to conceive after a loss - or in our case - 3 tragic losses - is SO HARD!!! However, I can't imagine that it will ever be easy. A part of us is forever gone. Of course we are scared, but we want so badly to be parents to children on earth in addition to our 3 beloved angels in Heaven. My desire to have more children outweighs my fear of losing another- so in that regard - I'm confident that we're ready to try again....

I am so incredibly sorry for everyone's losses ... I myself have lost 2 babies... One of them I held in my arms for almost 2 years. I didn't have any fertility issues then... had an easy pregnancy.
My daughter was born with a rare disease called Aicardi syndrome... I found out about her disease 3 months after she was born. When she was 4 months old she got RSV, Bronchiolitis and pneumonia. She wound up in the intensive care unit for 5 months. She was on life support at home for the rest of her life. When my daughter passed away I was 4 weeks pregnant... 5 weeks after my daughter died I had a miscarriage... I went to the bathroom and wiped and in my hand I saw my tiny baby.... it was a horrible experience. 6 months have passed and my husband and I have been TTC but no luck.... I know many of you have been trying for years... and probably think 6 months is not a long time... But I am starting to worry that maybe there is something wrong with me.

[fifi03]

hello, i'm new to this, and was happy to see that others are in the same boat as me. sometimes i feel like i'm the only one going through this. in december of '06 i got pregnant though iui and i lost the baby at 8 1/2 weeks due to blighted ovum. we continued iui's and i got pregnant in april of '07. everything was going well, good heart beats and everything! 8/29/07 i went to find out the sex of the baby, and i was having a boy! it tuens out my son was a rare form of a dwarf and he wouldn't make it and my only choice was to end the pregnancy. he had many sturctural abnormalities (in limbs, head and lungs). the worst thing i've ever been through! right now, i'm waiting to find out if i'm pregnant. i had another iui cycle and will find out tomorrow. i'm just very nervous and am having a hard time relaxing!

[Lesmith]

I am so sorry for your loss. My heart breaks for every woman who has lost a child. I loss my twin girls in January at 24 weeks also. I also had two early miscarriages before I got pregnant with twins. I can tell you that time will heal your pain, but a piece of you heart will always be broken and you will always ache for your baby. But it does get easier.

[triciaannn]

well, maybe this will make you feel better. I went thru the same thing. I was 23 weeks pregnant with identical girls. My water broke and I went into labor, the babies did not make it. we have been trying to 18 month's. Hopefully, soon something will happen. My heart is still broken.