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Just lost IVF twins, at 24 weeks, they lived 7 days
Hi,
I just lost IVF twins. Daniel and Andrew were born at 24 weeks after I was in the hospital for 5 weeks. Daniel loved four days and Andrew lived 7. I have been TTC for 9 years. I have lost three to mc but this was so much harder. I just picked out their headstone and today their birth certificates came! |
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forgot to mentioned
We have four more embryos and they want me to try again. I am scared to death!
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oh my goodness, my heart aches for you. i am so very terribly sorry for your loss. i am so glad that you have reached out for support from this forum. i hope and pray that we can offer you some sort of support and encouragement. i don't know what else to say except that i will say a prayer for you and your family. again, i am so sorry that you are going through this.
amy
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![]() TTC #1 for 2.5+ years ME: (Amy) 28, tubal damage DH: (Chris) 30, perfect! 3 IUI cycles cancelled due to a # of problems & 1 cycle resulting in BFN 1/12 BFP on natural cycle,ectopic pregnancy ended 1/23/07 1st IVF: 2/7- ER- 17 eggies!! 2/10-ET 2 8-cell 6dp3dt, 7dp3dt hpt= God is so good! Betas: 2/22= 170, 2/25= 499, 2/29=2857 1st u/s 3/13 (My wedding anniversary!) 140 BEAUTIFUL bpm! 2nd u/s 3/27 - WOW! The growth is amazing! 182 bpm U/S 5/27/08 GO TEAM BLUE!!! OMG THEY WERE WRONG! We've switched teams...we're now THINKING PINK!!! ![]() ![]() Going for baby #2! FET October 6th - BFN I realize I'm blessed beyond measure, and I have tons of faith that God has more blessings in store for me...gotta keep on trying! My Etsy store: http://www.etsy.com/shop.php?user_id=7002529 Last edited by ara79 : 11-14-2007 at 09:46 PM. |
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So Sorry
I am so sorry for your loss.
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Re:- just lost IV4 twins
I am so very very sorry for your loss. In May this year, i lost my baby girl at 27 weeks to pre term labor. No problem found in the baby or me....... We have just started to try again.... i hope and pray that soon we have happy healthy kids in our laps
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Oh my goodness, I'm so sorry to hear about your loss. I can only imagine. I too have had a miscarriage but I can't imagine what it's like to have your children, hold them in your arms and lose them in such a short amount of time. My cousin actually just lost her son 7 days after birth as well due to strep B infection. She went into labor before they tested her for it and she had passed it on to the baby. Do they know what happened to your boys, why your labor started so early? Take the time you need to heal and to grieve, if you aren't ready to jump back in for a FET then don't. You need to be comfortable.
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I am so sorry to hear about your loss. It is heartbreaking.
May God give you and your family the strength to deal with the grief. I know what being pregnant for so long means and how much preparations you must have made for the babies. I would suggest to find out the root cause. Why this happened before even thinking about FET. Take your time. Hugs.
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![]() ME: 32 DH: 37 Married since eight years. Unexplained infertility... One doxy baby: Beetle ![]() Three IUIs in 2007 - BFN IVF (ICSI) in June. First Beta - 11th July - 72.38 Second Beta - 220.30 ![]() 2nd u/s - 4th Aug - Saw my angel's heartbeat 7w4d160bpm 3rd emerg. u/s - 24th Aug - Saw the baby dancing 139bpm. Low lying placenta diagnosed. 4th u/s - 8th Oct - Placenta moved up. 3D and Anomaly scan - 23rd Oct - Everything measures perfect. Baby Hb: 148bpm. Cervical cerclage - 2nd Nov - Successful. Eva born on 29th Feb via C-scetion. She weighed 7 lb 2.6 oz (3.25kg) at birth and was 19.6 inches long! ~ 7 lb 14 oz and 21.2 at six week appointment. Vaccinated. ~ 10th week vaccination complete. Measured 9 lb 7.6 oz and 23.3 inches. ![]() www.gutfeel.com - My personal blog ![]() |
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Nobody should have to go through what you've been through.. I am so sorry. Our thoughts and prayers for you and your family.
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~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ me-36 High FSH-Hypothyroid dh-40 Low everything IUI 1 & 2-Clomid 100mg-Failed IUI 3 & 4/375 Gonal F 9/24 & 9/25-Failed IVF/ICSI Nov-One Egg Failed DEC-JAN-FEB= Hibernation March 12th- start stims- Lupron 2x, 150 Repronex, Gonal 375 (Holy cow I'm a walking Hormonal ..... )ER- 3/30 One Egg ![]() 4/2 Transfer Beta 4/13 Low positive- #'s dropping- Miscarriage ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ Going to start trying unmedicated IUI's (cheaper alternative) IUI- October 12th 1st Beta- 21dpiui Fri Nov 2nd- + 4989 Spotting 1st Ultrasound Nov 14th ~HB 135Next ultra Dec 3rd - all is great! 12/26 NT Scan waiting results~measured 13wks 1/21 Next Ultrasound~HB 150 2/21 Gender Scan- resescheduled for monday HB 158 2/25 ITS A BOY!!! ![]() 07/02/08 Jr is born!! |
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It takes my breath away to hear your very sad news. May you find peace and love with your DH and the rest of your family and know that your twins will take care of each other until you one day join them. Take it one day at a time ... you'll know when it's right to try FET. I'm so sorry for your loss
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myself 42, DH 37 TTC 6+ years IUI attempts: 11/04, 3/05 & 4/05 IVF #1 11/7/06 D&C at 9 1/2 weeksIVF #2 3/19 - Beta ![]() Took some time off ... trying again with new RE IVF #3 12/3/07 - miscarriage #2 D&C (day before my 41st birthday ) July 2008 - After taking some time to decide which road to take we decided to move on to domestic adoption and are thrilled ![]() September 2009 - May 2009 - completed homestudy & got approved ... finalized profile and completed applications with several agencies May/June 2009 - active with 2 agencies and a referral company - YIPEE! |
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I am so very sorry about your loss. Please feel free to lean on us as much as you need. Don't feel pressured to do FET...like Jen said, take time to heal then do it when you are ready.
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![]() Me: 36 MTHFR hetero, RPL DH: 34 Perfect Etienne , Jake , Sam (cats) Maggie (iguana)TTC #1: 2 yrs 2 m/c (Aug '06 and Jan '07), 1 ectopic pg (lost left tube) 5 IUI's 5/27: beta #1: 716!!!! (17dpo) Natural cycle!5/29: beta #2: 1885!!!! 6/1: early u/s-1 sac/yolk 6/9: u/s#2-saw and heard hb! 114 bpm. Measuring 6w2d 6/17: u/s #3- hb 154 bpm. Measuring 7w3d 7/1: u/s #4- hb 161 bpm. Measuring 9w4d 7/9: first OB appt.-u/s #5- hb 152 bpm. Measuring 10w4d 7/17-NT scan-everything looks great! Measuring 11w6d 8/14-quad screen (quick gender check): IT'S A BOY!!! 2/2/09: c-section scheduled! ![]() check out my website! www.glassphusions.wordpress.com |
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I am so sorry for your loss. I will keep you in my prayers.
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Me: 37 (abdominal myomectomy Jan. 2007; left tube blocked) DH: 37 (no issues), wonderful TTC since July '07 IUI 8/07: BFN IVF #1 11/07: BFN Switched to new RE 1/08 Diagnosed with Asherman's Syndrome. 3/08 Hysteroscopy, Asherman's fixed. Planning for IVF #2 7/08! 6/08: on a natural cycle!!!!!!!! !! 10/16/08: It's a BOY! Due March 5, 200911/30/08: Pre-term labor at 26 weeks, hospital bedrest for 10 weeks! 2.0.09, 6:37 p.m. CST: 36 w 1 d OUR MIRACLE BABY, COLIN is born!!! 5 lbs, 4.5 oz, 18". TOTALLY HEALTHY and ABSOLUTELY GORGEOUS!!!
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Feeling your pain
MY heart bleeds for you and your dh. I am soo sorry that you had to experience this. My husband lost one of his twin boys at 5 months and all i can say from watching him is it is ok to hurt, be scared, cry, be mad and process what is happening. It will take time and if you feel that you are ready to try again then you should and it is perfectly ok to be scared. My dh is still nervous with us trying and it has been 3 yrs. so we just talk about it and pray that God keeps us all and our children close. You will never be with out them and we are all here for you to lean on. best of luck and all our sympothy.
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ME- Lorry DH-perfect DSS 12/24/2003- Collin (full custody) DSS 12/24/2003-5/27/2004- collins twinTTC- 1/13/2007 7/13/2007- @ 6 weeks 02/18/2008-beta #35@ 6 1/2 weeks, u/s No sac 4/3-Genetic and blood testing =Everything fine 7/24/08-8/17/08-clomid 50 mg 9/29/2008- lap and hyp. -Found sever scaring on uterus and one blocked tube and a growth on open tube HOPE WAS LOST!!!!! 12/5/2008-sdp 4 days before 12/9/2008- Beta 140!!!! 12/12/2008- Beta 585! 12/22/2008- 1st us gestational sac and yolk beta 20,000 1/2/2009-hb 140 MOST Amazing moment of my life! 1/20/2008-U/s Hb 174 Turkey butt was jumping around and waved at us (or so we like to think)Its a GIRL!!!! Aniston NOel Fry!!!! ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]()
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Thank you
Thank you for you comforting words. As to the cause, they really don't know. They THINK I have an incompetant cervix. They also think it could have been because of being pregnant with twins. They want to try again with 1 embryo and put in a cerclage at 14 weeks. I see the RE on the 26th.
Beth, TTC 9 years PCOS, MTHFR gene mutation 6 rounds of clomid, no O 4 rounds of pergonal, 3 mc 1 round IVF, 2 baby boys born premature, died with in a week. Mommy to Daniel and Andrew, my Warriors in Heaven. |
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Oh my gosh, I am so sorry. I just experienced an early miscarriage, and the pain is nearly unbearable. I can't imagine what you and your DH are going through. My thoughts are with you, your family and your twins.
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Me: Joline 31 (PCOS)DH: Rod 32 (Healthy) thethorntoncrew.blogspot.com 11-15-07 miscarraige -2 more failed rounds of clomid (50mgs then 100mgs) 3-26-08 BFP x3 (150mgs of clomid) 3-26-08 First Beta at 11 DPO=51 Prog=51 3-31-08 2nd Beta at 16 DPO=339 Prog=53.5 6-23-08 It's 2 BOYS! 9-3-08 bed rest 9-24-08 Hospital bed rest-29w6d-3cm dilated/100% effaced 10-12-08 Madden Riley was born vaginally weighing 3 lbs. 15 oz./32w3d 10-13-08 Myles Lee was born via emergency c-section weighing 4 lbs 5 oz. /32w4d ![]() ![]()
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