[frymomma2b]

Ok so my ticker is wrong it is day 31 of a 30 day cycle. As most of you know i am going through a seperation. Though we are not together dh and i have a couple times and one of them happened to be on my fertile days. I have been awaiting af because she is ALWAYS RIGHT ON TIME either 29 days or 30 never more not even when i had my m/c's. I took a dollar store test on Saturday night right before bed and after drinking lots of sprite but i still think given those factors it should have shown bfp if thats what it was but sure enought i got a . I even have been because that usually brings it on, though i really dont want to do that right now with dh. So my question is 1)go get a beta that i cant afford. 2) get another test First Response cant afford but will get $ from dh 3) wait it out it will be here soon or 4) the stress of the situation is what is holding up af

thank you ladies for your help

[CryingInside]

If it were me I would try to take another test and do it in the morning instead of at night. Stress definately plays a part AF coming and going so that might be the problem, but it would be better to know.

[frymomma2b]

Yeah i am going to wait till friday i think and test again. I feel like crap today.....sooooooo soooooo tired (have been for like the last 6 days) nausia when i wake up at lunch and last night i threw up after sex. this is just either really weird or i am pregnant and it is just not strong enough in my urine yet

[jenedens6102]

Stress can definitely delay AF. If you can't afford another test I say give it a week. If AF hasn't started within a week from when she was due it's time to take the next step in testing.

[Mom2MandyandTristan]

Stress can cause havoc to your whole body not just AF and it can even affect your pg if you are so I would recommend trying to relax a little and not be too stressed (although in this situation it's better said than done I know).

[frymomma2b]

Ok so i have not relaxed at all the stress level between my dh and i is higher than ever. I went for my beta yesterday at 4:00 so i will get the answer today. I wasnt going to tell dh but figured i needed to because at the end of the day i love him and he is the father if there is a child. Well you will never beleive what he told me after trying for over a year and two m/c he said "Why are you telling me i dont care, you want it not me". I mean seriously what the f*** who says that to someone they love seperated or not. So i am not telling him if i am. I had some bleeding after sex the other day but i had that last time too. It goes away after a few min and it only happens when i have sex. Dr. said something about the extra blood flow to the uterus or something. Hoping for a BFN. I want a child but with someone who wants one too you know. Thought i had that but guess not. Reallly deppressed

[Bri01]

wOW....I s all I can say. Let us know about your BETA. It'll all work out the way that it is supposed to.

[Ladybuglee]

Sweetie, I just wanted to tell you I'm so sorry for what you're going through. Sending you big hugs...

[jenedens6102]

What a jerk, I can't believe he actually said that to you. While I hope it's a BFP for you because you do want a child, part of me hopes you aren't so that the child doesn't have a monster for a father - someone who doesn't care like he should. So sorry you are dealing with this. Keep us posted.