[kteach]

I am 28, my husband 31. We got pregnant on our first try in August of last year. We misscarried at 9 weeks- we saw the heartbeat. My ob said she was unaware of the cause of the misscarriage. Since then we have been trying with no luck. August-Oct we used clomid with 2 natural cycles and one with IUI. ALL NO LUCK. It has been over a year and I have been to an infertility clinic. They say I may have endo but can't be sure unless they do a lapo. My insurance doesnt cover this and it is very expensive so instead of spending the money on the lapo we are thinking of IVF. The clinic said I would be a great canidate. I dont think I have endo because I have no symptoms but who knows. Also my husbands sperm is PERFECT! Has anyone ever heard of getting pregnant the first time then nothing?? Also do you think IVF is a good option? Thanks so much

[JessStillWaits]

Hi- I do think IVF is a great option for many things and if you have the means to try it, do it. Docs usually like to try 3 IUI's by moving on. I am very sorry to hear about your miscarriage, I have heard all kinds of strange stories on these boards. I hope you find your answer soon.

Originally Posted by kkerlinteach

I am 28, my husband 31. We got pregnant on our first try in August of last year. We misscarried at 9 weeks- we saw the heartbeat. My ob said she was unaware of the cause of the misscarriage. Since then we have been trying with no luck. August-Oct we used clomid with 2 natural cycles and one with IUI. ALL NO LUCK. It has been over a year and I have been to an infertility clinic. They say I may have endo but can't be sure unless they do a lapo. My insurance doesnt cover this and it is very expensive so instead of spending the money on the lapo we are thinking of IVF. The clinic said I would be a great canidate. I dont think I have endo because I have no symptoms but who knows. Also my husbands sperm is PERFECT! Has anyone ever heard of getting pregnant the first time then nothing?? Also do you think IVF is a good option? Thanks so much