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Old 03-05-2012, 12:25 PM
Christy_2125 Christy_2125 is offline
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Christy, is your first beta Monday? That's strange that we'd run the same cycle, but not have our betas at the same time. I'm planning to take a FRER Monday, but I'm not holding out hope. Our embryo's weren't the best of quality, so I know the chances are pretty slim. When I asked my coordinator, she said they wouldn't even test again. A 5dpt beta just seemed awfully early to me. She said I should call and discuss the cycle with the RE, but I really don't know what he could have to say.

Thanks for your support girls! I haven't ruled out trying another round, but it wouldn't be until Sept/Oct (planning life around school, yet again). DH sounds like he's not interested in another round because of the $. If we could just get (and yes, this probably sounds horrible) his mom to give him some early inheritance (he's an only child, so he gets everything anyway), maybe he'd be okay with it. We'll see. Adoption isn't out, but as selfish as a non-IF person would think this sounds, I don't want someone else's baby right now---I want my own. I want to experience the joys and excitement of pregnancy, and the post-delivery excitement of holding our baby! I've dreamed of what our children would look like (blond haired, probably curly, blue eyed, chubby little babies) since probably the first time I walked into his parents' house and saw a picture of him when he was little....sigh....life bites!!


Yes, my first beta was today... Still waiting on the results but I POAS this morning and it was neg so I am just waiting on the confirmation from the dr. I'm not quite sure why our betas are on such different days.. I am 10dpt today but with my egg quality being so bad maybe they just wanted to give me a little more time, even though it was a 5dt my embies were more like day 3 so maybe he was treating it as a 3dt... Who knows
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Me - 26; no tubes, endo
DH - 27; perfect; has DD from previous relationship

diagnosed with severe endo at age 17
TTC 5 years

trying naturally for the past 5 years, 3 m/c
1 ruptured ectopic 5/13/11

Feb '12 first IVF!!

12/31/11 started BCP's and Prenatals
1/25 Start Luperon and Dex
1/29 End BCP's
2/2 Baseline U/S and E2
2/6 Start Follstim
2/9 Start Menopur
2/13 Baseline U/S and E2 Lots of Eggs!!
2/14 Follow up E2 and U/S
2/19 ER - Only 9 eggs, the rest were too poor of quality..
2/20 24 hr fert report.. only 3 fertilized
2/22 2 "average" quality embryos
2/24 ET - transferred 3 embryos, two at the morula stage and one that was only at a day 3 stage. :/
3/1-3/5 - POAS all negative
3/5- beta
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Old 03-05-2012, 12:38 PM
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I'm out, tested negative today on 10dp3dt (13dpo). Can't figure out why they have kept the beta for so late.

I don't think I am ever going to be a mom, not saying this in a sentimental way, but I actually feel it's not meant to be.

And what makes things even better is hearing from my husband last night that our marriage isn't what he would call "good". He wouldn't tell me the reason, he just said "there's nothing that can be changed, it just is this way".

I told him straight up (thanks for the courage Progesterone!) that if one partner sacrifices, and sacrifices for the wishes and successes and dreams of the other, and eventually doesn't get even a hint of appreciation, resentment develops. I told him it's not the fights that kill a relationship, it's not the differences in tastes, language, culture or anything - resentment is what eats a relationship up. When the effort becomes one-sided.

I was on way to make my dreams come true and I stopped everything right in the middle (twice), let the best opportunities in life pass me by, because he asked me to, he needed to be somewhere else, do something else and needed someone's encouragement and support, someone to take care of him while he fought for what he wanted. I saw him through it all, I was the one with him when he was at his lowest low. Now that he is what he dreamt of being, I'm just someone with whom he doesn't have a good marriage.

Life sucks really.

I need a big break.

I'm so sorry I know my hubby and I have had our ups and downs throughout this whole process, sometimes guys just don't know when or how to bite their tongue. I hop you and your hubby are able to work that stuff out!!
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Me - 26; no tubes, endo
DH - 27; perfect; has DD from previous relationship

diagnosed with severe endo at age 17
TTC 5 years

trying naturally for the past 5 years, 3 m/c
1 ruptured ectopic 5/13/11

Feb '12 first IVF!!

12/31/11 started BCP's and Prenatals
1/25 Start Luperon and Dex
1/29 End BCP's
2/2 Baseline U/S and E2
2/6 Start Follstim
2/9 Start Menopur
2/13 Baseline U/S and E2 Lots of Eggs!!
2/14 Follow up E2 and U/S
2/19 ER - Only 9 eggs, the rest were too poor of quality..
2/20 24 hr fert report.. only 3 fertilized
2/22 2 "average" quality embryos
2/24 ET - transferred 3 embryos, two at the morula stage and one that was only at a day 3 stage. :/
3/1-3/5 - POAS all negative
3/5- beta
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Old 03-05-2012, 01:37 PM
Christy_2125 Christy_2125 is offline
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Just got the call from my dr. Beta was negative, so now I guess on to step two.
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Me - 26; no tubes, endo
DH - 27; perfect; has DD from previous relationship

diagnosed with severe endo at age 17
TTC 5 years

trying naturally for the past 5 years, 3 m/c
1 ruptured ectopic 5/13/11

Feb '12 first IVF!!

12/31/11 started BCP's and Prenatals
1/25 Start Luperon and Dex
1/29 End BCP's
2/2 Baseline U/S and E2
2/6 Start Follstim
2/9 Start Menopur
2/13 Baseline U/S and E2 Lots of Eggs!!
2/14 Follow up E2 and U/S
2/19 ER - Only 9 eggs, the rest were too poor of quality..
2/20 24 hr fert report.. only 3 fertilized
2/22 2 "average" quality embryos
2/24 ET - transferred 3 embryos, two at the morula stage and one that was only at a day 3 stage. :/
3/1-3/5 - POAS all negative
3/5- beta
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Old 03-05-2012, 03:12 PM
OnlyNeed1 OnlyNeed1 is offline
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Just got the call from my dr. Beta was negative, so now I guess on to step two.

Sorry, Christy. What is step two, do you know yet? I'm supposed to call and talk to the RE, but I think I'll probably email him instead. I don't really know what he'd have to say other than "it didn't work, so let's try again," which I still have to talk my husband into doing. If we do another IVF, which I think we should try one more time, it won't be until the fall.
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Me - 30 somewhat irregular cycles
DH - 28 low motility
Together since Apr 2000, Married since July '06
Stew (tux)
Mego (long hair tortie-tux)

Never on BCP.
Christmas Day '08 Happy surprise
MC at 9 weeks, D&C by choice

Started actively trying:
Sept-Oct '10 clomid, clomid/premarin
Nov Met with RE
Nov-Jan natural w/BBT's & OPK's
Feb '11 IUI#1 Follistim and Ovidrel
Mar '11 IUI#2 Follistim and Ovidrel
Apr '11 Off - HSG Clear!
May-July '11 Off - TTC naturally
July '11 - clomid to shorten cycle after 41 day cycle
Aug '11 - clomid shortened cycle length
Sept-Dec '11 - TTC naturally

Feb '12 IVF -Only...nothing left to freeze.
ER 2/17 11 retrieved, 9 mature, 8 fertilized
6dt 2/24: Only 2 made it to transfer


Mar 6, '12, let cycle 19 begin

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Old 03-05-2012, 05:35 PM
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Sorry, Christy. What is step two, do you know yet? I'm supposed to call and talk to the RE, but I think I'll probably email him instead. I don't really know what he'd have to say other than "it didn't work, so let's try again," which I still have to talk my husband into doing. If we do another IVF, which I think we should try one more time, it won't be until the fall.

I go in for my wtf appt on wed so we will find out then about what our next step would be.. I think we will prob do another cycle but we need to figure out how realistic that would be with such poor quality eggs.

Has your re told you what he would do different next go around?
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Me - 26; no tubes, endo
DH - 27; perfect; has DD from previous relationship

diagnosed with severe endo at age 17
TTC 5 years

trying naturally for the past 5 years, 3 m/c
1 ruptured ectopic 5/13/11

Feb '12 first IVF!!

12/31/11 started BCP's and Prenatals
1/25 Start Luperon and Dex
1/29 End BCP's
2/2 Baseline U/S and E2
2/6 Start Follstim
2/9 Start Menopur
2/13 Baseline U/S and E2 Lots of Eggs!!
2/14 Follow up E2 and U/S
2/19 ER - Only 9 eggs, the rest were too poor of quality..
2/20 24 hr fert report.. only 3 fertilized
2/22 2 "average" quality embryos
2/24 ET - transferred 3 embryos, two at the morula stage and one that was only at a day 3 stage. :/
3/1-3/5 - POAS all negative
3/5- beta
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Old 03-05-2012, 07:57 PM
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Not yet, I guess I need to set up a time to meet with him. With my schedule though, it will probably end up being a phone consult.
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Me - 30 somewhat irregular cycles
DH - 28 low motility
Together since Apr 2000, Married since July '06
Stew (tux)
Mego (long hair tortie-tux)

Never on BCP.
Christmas Day '08 Happy surprise
MC at 9 weeks, D&C by choice

Started actively trying:
Sept-Oct '10 clomid, clomid/premarin
Nov Met with RE
Nov-Jan natural w/BBT's & OPK's
Feb '11 IUI#1 Follistim and Ovidrel
Mar '11 IUI#2 Follistim and Ovidrel
Apr '11 Off - HSG Clear!
May-July '11 Off - TTC naturally
July '11 - clomid to shorten cycle after 41 day cycle
Aug '11 - clomid shortened cycle length
Sept-Dec '11 - TTC naturally

Feb '12 IVF -Only...nothing left to freeze.
ER 2/17 11 retrieved, 9 mature, 8 fertilized
6dt 2/24: Only 2 made it to transfer


Mar 6, '12, let cycle 19 begin

Love this song:
lhttp://www.youtube.com/watch?v=b10OQ0qPT9A&feature=player_embedded
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Old 03-06-2012, 03:06 PM
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Sorry that you had to delay ET. What was your e2 on trigger day? Mine was 3325. So they ended up triggering me with 1/2 hcg dose. I had ER on Tuesday and still am having a lot of discomfort. I'm really bloated with tons of gas like pains. What were you told to do for it? I fear my ET will also be delayed.

My E2 at trigger was 4700, and I triggered with 80 units of Lupron and 1500 of HCG. After trigger it was over 9000. I was given 1000ml of Albumin in my iV at egg retrieval and started on Dostinex 0.5mg, 1 pill once daily for 8 days. I was told to drink pedialyte and milkshakes. NO water and limit gatorade because of the sugar. Try to eat 3 eggs daily. Sleep with legs elevated on pillows.
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DH: 26, Positively perfect in every way
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Started seeing RMA of CT in October 2011
Nov 2011: HSG revealed blocked tubes
Hospitalized for 2 nights with PID after HSG
Dec 2011: One month break for PID to resolve

IVF#1: Feb 2012 Antagonist Protocol:
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Old 03-06-2012, 03:52 PM
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My E2 at trigger was 4700, and I triggered with 80 units of Lupron and 1500 of HCG. After trigger it was over 9000. I was given 1000ml of Albumin in my iV at egg retrieval and started on Dostinex 0.5mg, 1 pill once daily for 8 days. I was told to drink pedialyte and milkshakes. NO water and limit gatorade because of the sugar. Try to eat 3 eggs daily. Sleep with legs elevated on pillows.


Thanks or sharing! Are you feeling better now? I was downing water and Gatorade, funny how everyone has different opinions. I went in on Saturday to be evaluated. My ovaries were very enlarged with some fluid in my abdomen. Thankfully I was able to have ET on Sunday. I'm still feeling a bit bloated but definitely not as much as I was. I never want to experience that again! When will you do your fet? I esh you all the best!
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Me: 33 pcos
Dh: 33 all good

March 2008- clomid 50mg, no o
April 2008- clomid 50mg, no o
May 2008- clomid 75 mg, no o
June 2008- clomid 100mg, o'd
July 2008- clomid 100mg, no o
August 2008- clomid 150mg, no o
September 2008- gonal f: overstimmed, cycle canceled

"weight loss break"

November 2011- femara 5mg cd3-7, follistim 100ius cd7-9, follistim 125ius cd10-13: overstimmed, cycle canceled
December 2011- prepping for ivf
January 2012- bcp, operative hysterscopy on the 20th
Fabuary 2012- ivf
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Old 03-06-2012, 05:42 PM
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Hey girls....just wanted to share the good news with you...

I had my first beta today...328!!!

Second beta scheduled for Thursday. For a big increase!
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Me: 29 PCOS & hypothyroid - Not able to ovulate DH: 30 two poor SAs
Married 5/28/06
4 year old Cavapoo 2 year old Cavapoo

12/11 began BCP, uterus test, day 3 labs
1/3/12 SonoHSG test
2/3/12 began menopur & bravelle
2/18/12 began oral dostinex & lupron trigger shot 9pm & 9am
2/20/12 ER, 14 eggs
2/22/12 embryo report: 11 grade 3, one grade 2
2/23/12 began PIO
2/25/12 ET transferred 2 blastocysts, freezing 8
3/2/12 POAS.... big faint positive!!
3/6/12 b/w done...HCG is 328
3/8/12 beta #2: 544
3/9/12 beta #3: 765
3/26/12 first u/s ... 6w6d TWINS!! Saw 2 hbs!
4/2/12 u/s #2 ... 7w6d 2 RE graduation
4/16/12 first OB appt 9w6d babies are moving!
5/10/12 heard the hbs for the 1st time (150+ bpm) downs u/s looked good
5/17/12 2nd OB appt
6/7/12 2nd high risk OB appt

EDD: 11/13/12 (40 wks)

Blog: http://bginc.blogspot.com/
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Old 03-06-2012, 06:01 PM
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Hey girls....just wanted to share the good news with you...

I had my first beta today...328!!!

Second beta scheduled for Thursday. For a big increase!

Congratulations!!!! Nice beta too!!!!
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Me: 33 pcos
Dh: 33 all good

March 2008- clomid 50mg, no o
April 2008- clomid 50mg, no o
May 2008- clomid 75 mg, no o
June 2008- clomid 100mg, o'd
July 2008- clomid 100mg, no o
August 2008- clomid 150mg, no o
September 2008- gonal f: overstimmed, cycle canceled

"weight loss break"

November 2011- femara 5mg cd3-7, follistim 100ius cd7-9, follistim 125ius cd10-13: overstimmed, cycle canceled
December 2011- prepping for ivf
January 2012- bcp, operative hysterscopy on the 20th
Fabuary 2012- ivf
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Old 03-06-2012, 06:42 PM
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Becky- have you had any symptoms yet?
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Me: 33 pcos
Dh: 33 all good

March 2008- clomid 50mg, no o
April 2008- clomid 50mg, no o
May 2008- clomid 75 mg, no o
June 2008- clomid 100mg, o'd
July 2008- clomid 100mg, no o
August 2008- clomid 150mg, no o
September 2008- gonal f: overstimmed, cycle canceled

"weight loss break"

November 2011- femara 5mg cd3-7, follistim 100ius cd7-9, follistim 125ius cd10-13: overstimmed, cycle canceled
December 2011- prepping for ivf
January 2012- bcp, operative hysterscopy on the 20th
Fabuary 2012- ivf
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Old 03-06-2012, 07:40 PM
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Originally Posted by Becky
Hey girls....just wanted to share the good news with you...

I had my first beta today...328!!!

Second beta scheduled for Thursday. For a big increase!

Glad to see someone with a !!!


AFM, showed today. I really wish that witch would take a hike!!
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Me - 30 somewhat irregular cycles
DH - 28 low motility
Together since Apr 2000, Married since July '06
Stew (tux)
Mego (long hair tortie-tux)

Never on BCP.
Christmas Day '08 Happy surprise
MC at 9 weeks, D&C by choice

Started actively trying:
Sept-Oct '10 clomid, clomid/premarin
Nov Met with RE
Nov-Jan natural w/BBT's & OPK's
Feb '11 IUI#1 Follistim and Ovidrel
Mar '11 IUI#2 Follistim and Ovidrel
Apr '11 Off - HSG Clear!
May-July '11 Off - TTC naturally
July '11 - clomid to shorten cycle after 41 day cycle
Aug '11 - clomid shortened cycle length
Sept-Dec '11 - TTC naturally

Feb '12 IVF -Only...nothing left to freeze.
ER 2/17 11 retrieved, 9 mature, 8 fertilized
6dt 2/24: Only 2 made it to transfer


Mar 6, '12, let cycle 19 begin

Love this song:
lhttp://www.youtube.com/watch?v=b10OQ0qPT9A&feature=player_embedded
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Old 03-11-2012, 09:16 AM
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Any news good/bad from anyone? It's been pretty quiet!
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Me - 30 somewhat irregular cycles
DH - 28 low motility
Together since Apr 2000, Married since July '06
Stew (tux)
Mego (long hair tortie-tux)

Never on BCP.
Christmas Day '08 Happy surprise
MC at 9 weeks, D&C by choice

Started actively trying:
Sept-Oct '10 clomid, clomid/premarin
Nov Met with RE
Nov-Jan natural w/BBT's & OPK's
Feb '11 IUI#1 Follistim and Ovidrel
Mar '11 IUI#2 Follistim and Ovidrel
Apr '11 Off - HSG Clear!
May-July '11 Off - TTC naturally
July '11 - clomid to shorten cycle after 41 day cycle
Aug '11 - clomid shortened cycle length
Sept-Dec '11 - TTC naturally

Feb '12 IVF -Only...nothing left to freeze.
ER 2/17 11 retrieved, 9 mature, 8 fertilized
6dt 2/24: Only 2 made it to transfer


Mar 6, '12, let cycle 19 begin

Love this song:
lhttp://www.youtube.com/watch?v=b10OQ0qPT9A&feature=player_embedded
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Old 03-11-2012, 10:06 AM
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Had my third beta...a strong 765! I'm so relieved! Next scheduled appointment is a 3/26 ultrasound!!
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Me: 29 PCOS & hypothyroid - Not able to ovulate DH: 30 two poor SAs
Married 5/28/06
4 year old Cavapoo 2 year old Cavapoo

12/11 began BCP, uterus test, day 3 labs
1/3/12 SonoHSG test
2/3/12 began menopur & bravelle
2/18/12 began oral dostinex & lupron trigger shot 9pm & 9am
2/20/12 ER, 14 eggs
2/22/12 embryo report: 11 grade 3, one grade 2
2/23/12 began PIO
2/25/12 ET transferred 2 blastocysts, freezing 8
3/2/12 POAS.... big faint positive!!
3/6/12 b/w done...HCG is 328
3/8/12 beta #2: 544
3/9/12 beta #3: 765
3/26/12 first u/s ... 6w6d TWINS!! Saw 2 hbs!
4/2/12 u/s #2 ... 7w6d 2 RE graduation
4/16/12 first OB appt 9w6d babies are moving!
5/10/12 heard the hbs for the 1st time (150+ bpm) downs u/s looked good
5/17/12 2nd OB appt
6/7/12 2nd high risk OB appt

EDD: 11/13/12 (40 wks)

Blog: http://bginc.blogspot.com/
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