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Going through loops on my IF rollercoaster ride...
I talked to my nurse yesterday and she said that my RE said I could start stims tonight even without having the results from that blood work my hubby had to have last week. So, I go in today for an u/s and blood work and my coordinator gives me the go ahead to start tonight. Now, I get a call from my RE a few minutes ago telling me to hold on the Lurpon until Monday!!! WHAT?!?!?! She said she wants to wait longer to see if she gets the blood work results back. I expressed my concerns about being on Lupron for this long and she said she would leave it up to me to decide! I'm no RE!! I want to do what she says to do but this is a little ridiculous to tell me to hold off one day, then to start another, then to hold off again!!! So, she said she wanted to talk to the study coordinator first and someone would call me back. In the meantime, I called DH...he is FURIOUS!!!! We signed our paperwork back in April for this IVF and the RE "let" us do it. So, she's been well aware that we were in the process. It's not our fault the blood work wasn't ordered sooner. Granted, I don't want to proceed if there is something wrong with the results!! My options are cancelling and getting NO MONEY BACK (we paid $5500)...or going forward with starting stims tonight. If we get the results back before my ER and they're bad...we just stop!! And still get no money back!! If we get them back after my ER, we can freeze the embryos. But what good will that do if there's something wrong with them based on this blood work my DH had?!?! This is so cruel!!! They were apologetic and everything, but still!! How can they screw with us like this?!?!?! As it stands right now, I'm starting at 225 units of Gonal-F and 75 units of Luveris tonight. Since I've been suppressed for a longer period of time, they said I need to start off with a higher does of stims. Is this all going to be a downward spiral from here? I want to go into this positively and having a chance for success!! Could all of this make us unsuccessful?!?!?
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Sheri (24) - Mild PCOS DH (27) - MF 2003 - BFP - Blighted Ovum (D&C) TTC 1st since Sept. 2006 12/31/07 DH SA 3.8 mil motile sperm Feb. 08 - Complete work-up w/RE Day 3 BW (LH elevated), U/S-lots of antral follies, HSG normal IVF w/ICSI Duramed Clinical Trial!! 7/13 ER (27 eggs, 20 mature & ICSI'd, 13 fertilized) 7/18 ET - 1 (AB) blast (6 frozen blasts) 7/28 Beta - BFN Sept 2008--Started Metformin |
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Wow Sheri - That is messed up and I am so sorry you are having to go through that! I can't understand a place where an RE would need to talk to the Study coordinator to figure out what to do...shouldn't it be the other way around?? That just sounds inept to me. I wish I had more good advice for you, but the only thing I can suggest is that stress won't help so try your best (even though I know it is hard) to just take deep breaths in and try to stay focused and not get too worked up. Easier said than done I know. I'm sorry you are going through that again...
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Kristen ![]() Me - 34 (APS, MTHFR) DH - 37 (MF, ~ 1 Mill, 2% morphology) SS - 13 yrs!!! IVF/ICSI #1 (Serono Clinical Trial): IVF/ICSI #2 (Duramed Clinical Trial): 6/16 - ER (22 retrieved, 18 ICSI'd, 10 fertilized) 6/21 - Xferred 2 Grade 4AA Blasts!! (start Lovenox), 6 totsicles!! 6/29 - EPT Digital - (8dp5dt)6/30 - Beta #1 - 101 7/2 - Beta #2 - 192 7/18 - IT'S IDENTICAL TWINS!!! ONE SAC, TWO HEARTBEATS (107 and 111 bpm)!! 8/25 - 12 wk U/S - Baby A HB 158, Baby B HB 154!! 8/29 - Dx w/ Incomp. Cervix, emergency cerclage performed 9/4 9/9 - WE'RE HAVING GIRLS!!!! Kayla Anne and Kamryn Grace!! 10/28 - Emergency room trip for preterm labor...now on bed rest and home monitoring. 12/2 - Next Peri Appt - 26 weeks! ![]() http://www.myspace.com/passionscientist Check out our blog! http://www.babynovilla.com |
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Just got back from my u/s--1 bean!! The baby measured perfectly and we saw the heartbeat, so I am super excited! FYI, my RE told me once you see the heartbeat there is over a 90% chance that you will not miscarry, so that is very reassuring I think!
Courtney, good luck on your upcoming u/s!
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Me: 30, Mild Endometriosis (Lap 5/2007) DH: 30, Male Factor IUI #1-#4: BFN IVF #1: 6/1: ER--18 eggs, 16 mature, 13 fertilized!! 6/4: Update on Embryo Development: 7 8-cell Grade 1, 1 7-cell Grade 1, 3 8-cell Grade 2, 1 12-cell grade 2, 1 5-cell grade 2 6/6: ET--transferred two beautiful blasts, BBB and CBB grades 6/10: Found out we have two frozen blasts! 6/15: Beta#1: 108!! I'm !!!!6/17: Beta #2: 200 6/23: Beta #3: 2761 6/30: Beta #4: 22,988 7/2: 6 wk, 3 day U/S: Measuring 6 wk, 4 days, HB 113! ![]() 7/16: 2nd U/S: Measuring 8 wk, 4 days, HB 167
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Congrats Babywishes13!!! Good luck tomorrow Hopeful, Cheli & vicperg!!
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Kristen ![]() Me - 34 (APS, MTHFR) DH - 37 (MF, ~ 1 Mill, 2% morphology) SS - 13 yrs!!! IVF/ICSI #1 (Serono Clinical Trial): IVF/ICSI #2 (Duramed Clinical Trial): 6/16 - ER (22 retrieved, 18 ICSI'd, 10 fertilized) 6/21 - Xferred 2 Grade 4AA Blasts!! (start Lovenox), 6 totsicles!! 6/29 - EPT Digital - (8dp5dt)6/30 - Beta #1 - 101 7/2 - Beta #2 - 192 7/18 - IT'S IDENTICAL TWINS!!! ONE SAC, TWO HEARTBEATS (107 and 111 bpm)!! 8/25 - 12 wk U/S - Baby A HB 158, Baby B HB 154!! 8/29 - Dx w/ Incomp. Cervix, emergency cerclage performed 9/4 9/9 - WE'RE HAVING GIRLS!!!! Kayla Anne and Kamryn Grace!! 10/28 - Emergency room trip for preterm labor...now on bed rest and home monitoring. 12/2 - Next Peri Appt - 26 weeks! ![]() http://www.myspace.com/passionscientist Check out our blog! http://www.babynovilla.com |
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Thanks Kristen. I think the RE needed to talk to the study coordinator because she wasn't completely sure about the terms of the study. She said she needed to find out when the results had to be turned in by and when the latest I could start to participate in the study was. She had the nerve to ask me if I wanted to completely stop right now and then go back on BCPs and "start over" again in about a month!!! Um...NO!!! My coordinator said that there is no way I can just stop now without losing what we paid already. I either have to hold til Monday, stop without a refund, or continue. DH and I chose to continue but we're worried!! We need the results from that darn blood work!!!
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Sheri (24) - Mild PCOS DH (27) - MF 2003 - BFP - Blighted Ovum (D&C) TTC 1st since Sept. 2006 12/31/07 DH SA 3.8 mil motile sperm Feb. 08 - Complete work-up w/RE Day 3 BW (LH elevated), U/S-lots of antral follies, HSG normal IVF w/ICSI Duramed Clinical Trial!! 7/13 ER (27 eggs, 20 mature & ICSI'd, 13 fertilized) 7/18 ET - 1 (AB) blast (6 frozen blasts) 7/28 Beta - BFN Sept 2008--Started Metformin |
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Congrats on the healthy little bean Babywishes!!!!
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Sheri (24) - Mild PCOS DH (27) - MF 2003 - BFP - Blighted Ovum (D&C) TTC 1st since Sept. 2006 12/31/07 DH SA 3.8 mil motile sperm Feb. 08 - Complete work-up w/RE Day 3 BW (LH elevated), U/S-lots of antral follies, HSG normal IVF w/ICSI Duramed Clinical Trial!! 7/13 ER (27 eggs, 20 mature & ICSI'd, 13 fertilized) 7/18 ET - 1 (AB) blast (6 frozen blasts) 7/28 Beta - BFN Sept 2008--Started Metformin |
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I am so happy for you. Congrats on your little bean. So I have another question. When you went to the clinic today they did Beta 4 or has that number already been there? I don't remember now. I can't wait for tomorrow. My dh and I are so excited. Hopefully we get wonderful news before this long weekend. Man this wait is for ever long. Kari - Good Luck tomorrow.... I'll see you there.
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Courtney Started AF - 04/20/08 Started BCP - 04/24/08 Started Lupron - 05/09/08 Stopped BCP - 05/12/08 Started Stims - 05/23/08 Triggered - 05/31/08 ER - 06/02/08 ET - 06/07/08 Beta #1 - 6/15 - 128 Beta #2 - 6/17 - 305 Beta #3 - 6/22 - 1875 Ultrasound - 07/03/08 - Twins Baby A - HB 123 - Baby B - HB 116 Ultrasound - 07/15/08 - |
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Well, I don't think waiting till Monday is too horrible though if you need too. The reason I say that is you started Lupron on 6/17 right?? MOST of us on the study in Houston are on the Lupron for at least 14 days. So if you start right now, you are only on day 15 and I know several girls on our end were on Lupron for an extra week due to scheduling...so I don't think you are at risk of really being too oversupressed ( of course, I'm not the RE either)...I just wanted you to not worry too much about having to wait until Monday. I was on Lupron for 15 days before I started Stims and I know Kari is going to be on them for an extra week as well...
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Kristen ![]() Me - 34 (APS, MTHFR) DH - 37 (MF, ~ 1 Mill, 2% morphology) SS - 13 yrs!!! IVF/ICSI #1 (Serono Clinical Trial): IVF/ICSI #2 (Duramed Clinical Trial): 6/16 - ER (22 retrieved, 18 ICSI'd, 10 fertilized) 6/21 - Xferred 2 Grade 4AA Blasts!! (start Lovenox), 6 totsicles!! 6/29 - EPT Digital - (8dp5dt)6/30 - Beta #1 - 101 7/2 - Beta #2 - 192 7/18 - IT'S IDENTICAL TWINS!!! ONE SAC, TWO HEARTBEATS (107 and 111 bpm)!! 8/25 - 12 wk U/S - Baby A HB 158, Baby B HB 154!! 8/29 - Dx w/ Incomp. Cervix, emergency cerclage performed 9/4 9/9 - WE'RE HAVING GIRLS!!!! Kayla Anne and Kamryn Grace!! 10/28 - Emergency room trip for preterm labor...now on bed rest and home monitoring. 12/2 - Next Peri Appt - 26 weeks! ![]() http://www.myspace.com/passionscientist Check out our blog! http://www.babynovilla.com |
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Courtney, I actually did Beta #4 on Monday, so I didn't do it today. But I think every RE does it differently, some people only get 2 or 3 betas before their u/s. Hope you have a GREAT u/s tomorrow!
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Me: 30, Mild Endometriosis (Lap 5/2007) DH: 30, Male Factor IUI #1-#4: BFN IVF #1: 6/1: ER--18 eggs, 16 mature, 13 fertilized!! 6/4: Update on Embryo Development: 7 8-cell Grade 1, 1 7-cell Grade 1, 3 8-cell Grade 2, 1 12-cell grade 2, 1 5-cell grade 2 6/6: ET--transferred two beautiful blasts, BBB and CBB grades 6/10: Found out we have two frozen blasts! 6/15: Beta#1: 108!! I'm !!!!6/17: Beta #2: 200 6/23: Beta #3: 2761 6/30: Beta #4: 22,988 7/2: 6 wk, 3 day U/S: Measuring 6 wk, 4 days, HB 113! ![]() 7/16: 2nd U/S: Measuring 8 wk, 4 days, HB 167
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Huh. That's weird. I wonder why they did 4 on you and I didn't do one. Aren't you in the Webster clinic with me? Yea I think that for the most part all I have seen were 3 and you were the exception. I was just curious. Thank you for the well wishes. I will keep you posted.
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Courtney Started AF - 04/20/08 Started BCP - 04/24/08 Started Lupron - 05/09/08 Stopped BCP - 05/12/08 Started Stims - 05/23/08 Triggered - 05/31/08 ER - 06/02/08 ET - 06/07/08 Beta #1 - 6/15 - 128 Beta #2 - 6/17 - 305 Beta #3 - 6/22 - 1875 Ultrasound - 07/03/08 - Twins Baby A - HB 123 - Baby B - HB 116 Ultrasound - 07/15/08 - |
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Courtney- I am not working tomorrow so I am going to try and get there a little early to see if they can see me earlier. I want to be able to sneak back there and see what you have going on in there!
Sheri- I can understand your frustration- TRUST ME!! I have been pushed back so many times in this cycle! But I have to trust the advice that the dr's are giving me and that they know what's best for me. I have been on Lupron since June 13th!!! The amount of Lupron that you are taking is such a low amout that I really don't think that a couple of extra days will cause you to over supress. I know you are anxious to get started and girl so am I but I just have to believe that there is a reason God keeps delaying us. Babywishes- Congrats on the 1 healthy bean!!! How exciting for you! Well tomorrow I am having my cervical dilatation and getting my stims to start on Friday. FINALLY!! Man I am so ready for this cycle to get going! I hope everyone has a wonderful holiday weekend!!
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Kari- Houston Me: 29 DH: 37 Married 9 yrs "Unexplained Infertility" IVF #1 2001- INJ/IUI 2002- IVF#2 2003- Baby 5/20/04 - My Miracle Little Man!! FET 2006- 7 cycles of INJ/IUI over all these years - all IVF #3 April 2008- Serono Studay at CORM- 28 eggs-none fertilized. IVF #4- July 2008- Duramed Study at CORM 5/27 5/29 Start BCP 6/13- Start Lupron 7/3- Cervical dilation 7/4- Start Stims 7/15- ER- 12 eggs, 10 mature & ICSI'd 7/16-9 out of 10 fertilized! I got the ring!! 7/20- ET- 2 blasts- 3AB &1AA 7/21- No babies in the freezer 7/29- Beta-
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Babywishes...Congrats girl on your healthly bean.I am so excited for you.I am suppose to start AF next week.Finally...
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Nikki_tx 30 yr old with recurrent m/c's 2001-Natural Pg- m/c 8 wks 2003-Natural Pg- m/c 6 wks 2004-Clomid pg- m/c 6 wks 2005-Natural Pg- ectopic lost left tube May 07-IUI #1 w/Clomid 50mg- April 08-1st appt for IVF study.. May 6th-Lap #5 & Hysteroscopy-Septum Uterine HereBCP 7/14/08 Lupron 7/30/08 Baseline 8/8/08 - E2 30 Started stims 8/8-225 Gonal F 150 Luveris 8/11 only 2 follies.Gonal F increased to 300 E2 31 Buckshot-Choc Lab Boone--Blonde Lab---Our new Puppy
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I didn't realize that. Thanks!! That makes me feel a lot better! Yep, I started Lupron on 6/17.
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Sheri (24) - Mild PCOS DH (27) - MF 2003 - BFP - Blighted Ovum (D&C) TTC 1st since Sept. 2006 12/31/07 DH SA 3.8 mil motile sperm Feb. 08 - Complete work-up w/RE Day 3 BW (LH elevated), U/S-lots of antral follies, HSG normal IVF w/ICSI Duramed Clinical Trial!! 7/13 ER (27 eggs, 20 mature & ICSI'd, 13 fertilized) 7/18 ET - 1 (AB) blast (6 frozen blasts) 7/28 Beta - BFN Sept 2008--Started Metformin |
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Thanks Kari!! I didn't realize that you had been on Lupron all this time too. I guess I wasn't paying enough attention. Ooops!! I'm going to start stims tonight and just pray that my office get the test results back soon!! Good luck with the CD and starting stims!!!!
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Sheri (24) - Mild PCOS DH (27) - MF 2003 - BFP - Blighted Ovum (D&C) TTC 1st since Sept. 2006 12/31/07 DH SA 3.8 mil motile sperm Feb. 08 - Complete work-up w/RE Day 3 BW (LH elevated), U/S-lots of antral follies, HSG normal IVF w/ICSI Duramed Clinical Trial!! 7/13 ER (27 eggs, 20 mature & ICSI'd, 13 fertilized) 7/18 ET - 1 (AB) blast (6 frozen blasts) 7/28 Beta - BFN Sept 2008--Started Metformin |
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