I have not gone through the IVF or any other technique......
I was just married to the man of my dreams this past October, and he understands and copes with my problems to have a baby. Let me tell you, I went through fertility problems for many many years.......I was DONE with the poking and prodding of doctors. I did give up. Many tears were shed.
I still do not predict anything coming our way, but that is okay. If it happens, it happens! I never thought I would say that! And I will adopt a baby one day. WE will adopt a baby one day, and he or she will have the greatest home........I will understand where they are coming from, because I am from the same background. I am adopted, and I will completely understand.

Originally posted by rominator
I will understand where they are coming from, because I am from the same background. I am adopted, and I will completely understand.

Rom, if you don't mind me asking, were you adopted as an infant or as an older child? The reason why I am asking, is becasue my husband is also an adoptee. He was adopted as a newborn, but found out when he was 9 years old. And yes, the happy story book ending: he had the perfect childhood and he is still very close to his parents. My husband does not feel one way or another about adoption. But, he said he will certainly be able to relate to our future children. I'm concerned about that, since we are adopting older children through foster care. He will certainly relate to being adopted, but certainly not the trauma of being bounced in and out of foster care and being removed from birthmom. But, I know my husband will have a special bond with our future kids!